1ST i would like to add how for the past yr or more i have been feelin so so guilty bout this, i felt such a bad mother an like ide let my son down, i cant believe i let him get to 4 before doin anything about it here goes, my son for the past 2 nights has slept in his own bed all night for the 1st time in his life he has also given up his dummy! Im so proud of him it was hard work but worth i have my bed back!