Just need some different opinions

[Cosmicjade26]

Hoping some PF ladies can throw some thoughts at me.

I am currently cd18, (don't know when I O, I haven't tracked af for a long time), my opk's have all been negative since cd12 (when I started doing them), I would post a pic but not sure how I do it, I feel bloated, I have a lot of cm, heartburn (drinking milk and water like its the end of the world) and to top it off I developed piles yesterday.....oh and am constipated (sorry if tmi), I just wondered if anyone else is going or has gone through this.

I may be noticing this more because me and oh are actually tracking our ttc.

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Just adding to this, more probably so I can refer to it, but today (cd20) I have bad lower back ache and lower tummy pain, and feel tired this eve, but have been swimming with clients today, and more cm, but still no +opk (testing 3 times daily)...mmmm

 

[Becky1]

Perhaps you ov'd prior to day 12... My friend has just found out she's pregnant and first sign she noticed was heartburn... Fx for a bfp hun. How long are your cycles usually?

 

[Cosmicjade26]

My cycles are 26 - 30 but not been tracking for a while, first cycle we have tracked, in way I'm hoping I have missed it, cos then I know I won't be one of those unlucky few who never have +opk, but wishing for bfp

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Ok just adding to this. Woke up this morning with a headache, feels like the headache you get after a migraine, and a bit lightheaded, still got constipation but the dreaded piles are getting better, and feel very tired. Am now cd21.

 

[wannabe.pg]

Apparently eating bananas are good for piles (so I read the other day on yahoo) but I am concerned as I thought you only got them dreaded things when you gave birth/pushing the baba out, can pregnancy in itself cause piles????

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Piles are usually later on in pregnancy, had em with both my pregnancies late on, never in possible early pg, (so not a symptom) but I think I may have had them because I have been constipated, (so a symptom of constipation rather than pg). But cheers wannabe, might try the banana thing (love fruit) x

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Still got massive headache and I now feel quite sick, tried to think about dinner but just can't bring myself to eat, think I need to officially start a ttc diary as I will keep referring back to this if we ge caught by the witch.

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Just found out how to attach pics, these are my opk's starting from cd12 as you can see I havnt had a +++ and my last one was done this aft 2pm cd21.

 

[LovelyL]

Really strange, looks like they are stronger at the top then fading down so maybe you did ovulate earlier? I'm on cd13 today and looks like I'm on a positive but had expected it a few days earlier according to my phone app. Hopefully you will of caught it anyway fx! X

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Starting from cd1 (3 June) Had 6 day af (normal for me), according to opk's if I ov befor cd12 (14 June) That would only give a 5 day window to ov, isn't that too soon after af.

Btw the little hearts on the picture are BDing

 

[LovelyL]

Haha! Hmm yeah I guess that would be a bit close but im sure it's still possible! My periods only tend to last two days thank god x

 

[Cosmicjade26]

My periods only tend to last two days thank god x

I'm so jealous. I guess I'm just hoping I'm not going to be one of the unlucky few who never get +opk's, so hoping I did ov early.

Still got low tummy ache aswell, like the is on her way, but she isn't due for another 5 - 9 days (could be something to do with all the wind I keep getting)

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Ok just and update (hoping this thread might help someone in symptom spotting) cramps still there, feel absolutely knackered but can't sleep (going to Bradford tomorrow for nephews 18th so may sleep in car), nipples sore and itchy tonight but no darker than normal, and feel hungry. Now to try and sleep.

 

[LovelyL]

Was gonna say maybe you've missed it but just seen that you've been testing 3 times a day so you can't of done! Only other 3 explanations would be: you ovulated prior to cd12, you're about to ovulate (unlikely but possible) or the tests haven't worked/dodgy! I've heard people on here saying a few times that the ovulation hasn't been picked up before but that normally tends to be on them clear blue monitor things! X

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Yeah thats the conclusion I came up with, there is a forth and that's that I didn't ov this month, it's disheartening but there are a few more cycles.

We are only giving ourselves a year as OH is 44 and he doesn't want to be much older for another, might have to have another trip to docs if I still keep seeing the witch as we have been together 10 years, and even tho we have 2 kids only one is his biologically, so 1 child in 10 years is a gud excuse to see the gp.

 

[Cosmicjade26]

Yeah thats the conclusion I came up with, there is a forth and that's that I didn't ov this month, it's disheartening but there are a few more cycles.

We are only giving ourselves a year as OH is 44 and he doesn't want to be much older for another, might have to have another trip to docs if I still keep seeing the witch as we have been together 10 years, and even tho we have 2 kids only one is his biologically, so 1 child in 10 years is a gud excuse to see the gp.

 

[LovelyL]

Yes sorry there is a forth! Hopefully it isn't that and it's one of the others. Can you have a random cycle where you don't ovulated? Fx that you catch within the 12 months then, sure you will x