Just Feel Like Crying!!

[Shaz]

My husband has just had it confirmed that he's going away to Basra (he's in the RAF) in June for four months. We kind of knew it was coming because he was supposed to go in February but had it deferred as it was the day before my due date!!

So now he's going in June. He's just gone to work for two night shifts, so I'm on my own here with Connor and I'm suddenly feeling very down.

I'm usually very independent and don't mind my own company at all but suddenly I can't bear to be alone!! What's the matter with me??

I think part of it is that I still can't drive until next week and I miss seeing to my horse and visiting my friends, but the thought of taking care of Connor on my own fills me with dread!!

Any advice girls?? I know a lot of you are single mums out there, but even surrounded by friends and family I still feel like I'm alone!!

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

aw hun it will be ok...

can a member of your family not come to stay for the first few weeks?

i know its a compeltely different situation but when my ex first left me i had my mum and she helped loads...

also just think when connor is asleep you can come on here and talk to us

i have msn if you ever wanna talk?

 

[rusks]

oh shaz how horrible, i have no words to make it better apart from that we will be here for you while he is away more than ever. feel free to add me to your msn as well, i try to come on here everyday.


your poor OH as well he will miss out on connor growing, i bet he is gutted as well. lots of hugs shaz xx

 

[roxanne080]

I know how you feel my mum left today after five weeks ( back to malta) and i do not know how am i going to cope without her cos she helped a great deal. im kind of scared cos ive never been with holly on my own. im going home in july for a short holiday and then again in september for a month but i feel kind of lonely and sad. joe is great help,but i miss home

 

[Freya]

know how you feel. Didn't want to be left alone after first child scared I wouldn't cope. I imagine by June you will be more confident. Make sure you do get out and mix with people as you will need support.

Try not to think about it too much now - don't let it spoil the next couple of months for you and dh.