Oh Lauren, that sounds awful!!
I wouldn't have minded taking him if the health visitors weren't so rude, but you'd think that if a mum is quite clearly in two minds about the whole thing, then bullying them into hurrying up and getting on with it wouldn't come into it. Sure they have a job to do, but so do I - to do what's right for my boy!! Still fuming about the whole thing to be honest.....grrrrrrrr