Is this normal???

[Scrapfairy]

We've been TTC for 9 months with no success, and it's getting to the stage now where its always on my mind. I keep thinking whether there is anything "wrong" with either of us and whether that would be the reason that we are not able TC.

I have always had a very regular 28-day cylce and after using the ovulation sticks it showed that i ovulate bang on the middle of the cycle. The only thing that keeps worrying me is the following - i apologize in advance if there is tmi!! - after we finish bd'ing and he pulls out i feel his ejaculation drip out of me, and i am not talking about a slight trickle but what i would say would be most of it - tmi, i know . I keep telling DH that i have a "crooked cervix" and thats why its hitting a brick wall and coming back out again

We have tried altering postitions but it always happens. I have even considered inserting a tampon in order to "keep it in" .

This is something that is really worrying me and wondered whether any of you experience this at all.

 

[jenna]

i have, usually 2/3 of it comes out but you have to sqeeze your legs together and bend over lol Thats what i do anyway.

 

[PyscoFalcon]

Same happens to me except from behind. Have you tried that? It's the only way it stays in. Also make sure he's going in far enougth.

 

[skatty]

Get him not to pull it out straight away so it acts as a bit of a plug and then put a cushion under your butt

 

[Scrapfairy]

We've already been trying the "plug" concept But as soon as he "unplugs" it sort of slips out again.

 

[missac]

i think it is perfectly normal, same happens to me x

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Happens to me too
Katrina

 

[skatty]

Actually I remember now this also happened to me but I did concieve so I guess it doesn't all come out, all it takes is once feisty little tadpole!

Definitely reccommend the pillow under bum though

 

[Peanut]

I wouldn't worry about this too much - it always happens to me too. I don't know if it helps at all, but I tried to keep still for 10 mins after BD and if poss put my legs up, pillow under bum. I think almost everyone feels liquid-y down there afterwards. Don't forget some of that liquid is yours (if you see what I mean!). I just got my BFP so maybe it helped?

Have you watched the video clips (stickies somewhere...I'll go find them) - they really put my mind at rest that sperm do their thing and nature takes its course.

 

[Peanut]

have a look at these:
http://www.pregnancyforum.co.uk/forum/v ... .php?t=162

 

[Peanut]

have a look at these:
http://www.pregnancyforum.co.uk/forum/v ... .php?t=162

 

[Alicebabe]

Used to happen to me too. When ArcaneGirl was on this forum, she posted loads of sciency type info and I think one of them said that it only takes about 15 seconds for the sperm to get through the cervix so some of it should make it through even if some of it comes out.

Bum under the pillow or legs up the wall is a definite though!

 

[Charm]

I get it too, I just used to put a pillow under my bum and lie down for 30mins watching Tv to give the little fellas a chance

Cx

 

[Alicebabe]

Aw Charm - you got your BFP! I'm hardly ever on here anymore. Too busy with the wedding plans so I didnt know.

Congratulations - I'm so pleased for you. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!

Alice x

 

[Charm]

Aww Thanks Alice