Hi Lisa,
I'm sorry to hear that your DH is not as keen as you to have a baby, but that never stopped me!
I was a young mum, Just 17! I found out when I was 6weeks. The father & I had split by then. When I told him I was pregnant with his baby, he said he didn't believe it was his. (He was the one & only person I had slept with!!)
So, I offered him a DNA test which he took & was proved wrong (the baby was his) He said I am too young to be a dad. He was only 19, but I was only 17.
Anyway he left & moved to Isle of Wight when I was just 8 weeks pregnant. He has never seen his son & has never offered or given me any money for his son. No visits, birthday cards or phonecalls.
I just think that he has lost out on so much. Watching his son grow, take his first step, say his first words. It is the most amazing feeling in the world when your child's eyes light up when you walk in the room, when they smile at you, or say I love you mummy & he missed all that by walking away.
I won't say it was easy bringing a child up on your own (especially at a young age!) But I would do it all again to have my son. He is my life & I don't regret losing my teen years at all!
Hope this helps!
If you have anymore questions, just ask I will be happy to help.