im so down and know im being pathetic

[minstrels]

Hi Girls

Ive not been on much recently as ive been trying not to get obsessive about ttc but its really getting me down. Ive only been trying since may ish and i know some people have been trying for so much longer and its so much harder for them.
I dont know what else to do my af has even started to be really irratic since ttc sometimes its 35days sometimed 14!
I dont know what to do next

 

[SpaceAngel]

1st of all a big Have you been to the Dr's for them to double check your hormone levels to make sure everything is ok in that area? It might be worthwhile. If you already have done that and the tests are fine, then your cycle length could be down to you thinking about ttc all the time and your body is playing tricks on you. I know it has done that to me in the past.

 

[minstrels]

thanks for replying I thought I had to wait for it to be a year to see the doctor, i might ring tomorrow and check

 

[jiffylemon]

hi minstrels
I have been ttc since April and I have also had irratic cycles, ranging from 28 days to 53. Last cycle (53) I went to the drs and she did some blood tests to check my hormone levels which came back normal. It has put my mind a little more at ease so I would definately go and see your dr. I think most dr's say you have to ttc for over a year before they will refer you to fertility specialists but they should do simple blood tests without it being a year.

 

[buddabun]

I have no advice except keep up the BDing and here's a big for you

 

[lmrcpr]

I think if you've got odd cycles ( sorry ddint know how else to word it) the doctor will see you sooner for some tests.
sendign you lots of babydust