I REALLY SHOULDNT MOAN AND I'M SORRY FOR PEOPLE TTC..

[charlotteheys85]

But my OH, has just come bk from a week away ski-ing..
so hes promised to spend some time with me, but instead on friday his friends invited him out, so he went out on the piss

And Today as he'd monday off work, hes just gone out again...
After sayin we'd spend sunday together ;'(

He's not doing it to upset me, tryin to avoid my moaning :'(

I know i'm gettin on his nerves, moaning at everythin..

yesterday he thought i'd be a good idea to put bongela on my arm for sum reason, and i burst into tears...

I could really do with a glass of Cold White wine :'(

But obveously would rather have a healthy lil Bean inside me..
So i'm going to try stop being negative xx

 

[dannii87]

Aww don't worry hun (accepted you on facebook! Just about to go through your pics )

Men can be a bit inconsiderate sometimes and hormones are going stir crazy etc!

I need that bonjela for my nipples

Anyway, like you said, he's not trying to upset you... How about this week (or at the weekend) grabbing a table at somewhere nice and just spend the evening just you two having a nice meal (and a glass of wine spritzer )!

Here's a hug for you xx

 

[charlotteheys85]

are you alowed to drink??

I love wine n lemonade/fizzy water how ever you have it hehe

I had a nosey through your pics. mine are really nothing exciting, where abouts you live if dont mind me askin? can pm if want or facebook msg..

does bongela help your nipples?? mine are killin lol..

Hmmm if i had the money we'd go out, but money all spent up till pay pday silly outgoings xxx

 

[dannii87]

Yeah not to excess obviously but I've had a couple of spritzers since being pregnant! Really watered down though because I'm not a huge fan of wine anyway!

Sandy in Bedfordshire is where I live now ) I'll send you a message on FB xxx

 

[lauramumof2]

I need that bonjela for my nipples
xx

???????why

 

[dannii87]

Because they are sore and cracked and bonjela numbs them and calms the cracking x

 

[Julia]

Hi Charlotte,

I found out I was pregnant with number two yesterday. For the past week I have been very very irritable and emotional (which is only normal due to pregnancy hormones kicking in). My DH went out last night for a few "shandies" (AS IF!!) and then stayed in bed this morning until 10.30am knowing full well that I am knackered!! He does not put plates in the dishwasher, leaves empty food packets lying around etc which really BUGS me!!!! He even let me carry most of the shopping in this afternoon and brought in one bag!! I am a strong girl (emotionally) normally but seem to have gone to pieces over the last couple of days. I am nagging my little girl (who is only 2).

His selfish behaviour has been magnified by about a million over the last couple of days but I am going to get the point across to him that I need HELP now that I am pregnant.

He is not a total slob - he works very hard for a living (he is a deputy head teacher of a large comprehensive school) and does any housework i ask him to do BUT I should be looked after now that my body is working so hard to develop my little pip!

Julia xxxxxxx MOAN OVER!!!

 

[charlotteheys85]

Hi Charlotte,

I found out I was pregnant with number two yesterday. For the past week I have been very very irritable and emotional (which is only normal due to pregnancy hormones kicking in). My DH went out last night for a few "shandies" (AS IF!!) and then stayed in bed this morning until 10.30am knowing full well that I am knackered!! He does not put plates in the dishwasher, leaves empty food packets lying around etc which really BUGS me!!!! He even let me carry most of the shopping in this afternoon and brought in one bag!! I am a strong girl (emotionally) normally but seem to have gone to pieces over the last couple of days. I am nagging my little girl (who is only 2).

His selfish behaviour has been magnified by about a million over the last couple of days but I am going to get the point across to him that I need HELP now that I am pregnant.

He is not a total slob - he works very hard for a living (he is a deputy head teacher of a large comprehensive school) and does any housework i ask him to do BUT I should be looked after now that my body is working so hard to develop my little pip!

Julia xxxxxxx MOAN OVER!!!

Hi, i heard about you BFP congrats again...

Hehe our men sound exactly the same, word hard but then turn into slobs at home.. i know they work hard, but i go to work all day, and were makin the lil Bean at same time, OH excuse was.. but your body is doing the important thing, and you can still do other things.. (i thought great that makes no sense lol) he said.. i've not been out in ages, lol he was on holiday last week, out fri, and sunday.. try not being out for 3weeks!! lol
hehe they just dont understand...

make an agreement with him, that if your to carry the baby for 9months he can be the baby sitter for 9months after so you can go out.. thats wat i did lol xxxx

 

[Julia]

Hi Charlotte,

I think many men are similar...I think it is down to their mothers doing too much for them when they are growing up!!!

I can't believe I can't have a drink for nine months (especially throughout the summer)!! That makes me feel irritable in itself! I feel guilty because I have been blessed with another child, which is wonderful, so perhaps I should stop moaning!! At least our bodies will be our own for Christmas!!!! Lets stay in contact because our hubby/partners sound identical and we can air our frustrations about them!!

Julia xxxx