i really need some advice!!!!!

[missy123]

well here goes....

I'm new on here and I really some advice from you ladies that might be going through something silmilar.

My period is 13 days late now, I took a preg test last monday and last wednesday both neg! So waited until today and I took another test which again is neg!

I have been needing a wee more than normal and my boobs seem bigger but not sore. I feel like my hormones are a little 'loopy' at the moment.

Me and hubby did the business on the 7th july, I had very tiny spotting on 18th july (around the day AF was due). But thats been it! I dont have sore boobs like I do get just before I'm due and haven't yet.

I have had some discharge from about 19th to 22nd july which was clear/tiny bit white-ish and it was very stringy and sticky (sorry or tmi)lol

So I am very confussed at the moment.

My periods have been very regular for the last 5 or so months and now I'm really late!

Could I still be pregnant? Been trying for nearly 4yrs!

Dawn
xx

 

[Kimbo]

hiya, and welcome..

i had spotting the day af was due, and my boobs were also sore.. i was due on my period on 19th may and got a positive on 22nd may.

i wasnt trying to concieve, so i wasnt testing all the time, just decided to test when i was a few days late.

i would keep trying.. especially by doing the tests early on in the morning.
if their still coming up negative and you still dont come on your period, go to your doctors and he should do a blood test

 

[missy123]

thanks for your reply,

I still have a little bit of hope left in me that I will get my pos result soon!

I just feel like I am not going to have a period it not a late AF feeling just dont feel I am gonna come on?

what symptoms do you have?

xx

 

[Kimbo]

i wasnt actually looking out for symptoms, because like i said, i wasnt trying.. but,. i do remember waking up every morning with a hangover type feeling, my head swimming and going dizzy etc.

didnt even cross my mind i could be pregnant.

i had increased discharge but still, didnt think.

and then the day af was due, i had pink spotting, so i thought my period was coming but it never, and i totally forgot until a few days later when i realised i hadnt come on!

i found out on a tuesday, and another symptom was on the saturday before.. i was out drinking with friends (as i did every weekend!) and i couldnt face my usualy drink anymore! (NOT LIKE ME! )

but it still didnt click! lol

after i found out though, my boobs were extremely sore and i had headaches all the time. didnt get much sickness, but ive also had constant hiccupps ever since lol

 

[missy123]

I still want to think that I could be but part o me wants to stop hoping to avoid disapointment!

We haven't been trying to the extent of taking my tempreture and all that but we are just thinking if it happens it happens.

The last couple of days I have been feeling unwell, not a sick feeling as such but just slightly queasy......?

Did have really bad lower backache from about wed 18th july until about last fri. Its died down abit now.

being female can be so confussing!

 

[Kimbo]

yeah i also felt ill - like i had the flu sort of

 

[missy123]

been waking up with a sort of stuffed up nose every morning?

My nails have been growing quite fast the last couple of weeks and they seem really strong which is unsual for me they are normally so thin and just break all the time.

 

[Kimbo]

lol my nails were exactly the same. they still are now

 

[missy123]

I do feel different than usual but I just want to know now I hate all this waiting and not knowing!

 

[missy123]

I keep feeling bloated on and off too.......

what going on!!!!!?????

 

[Kimbo]

i was very bloated. i must of only been 3 weeks preg when i found out but looked at least 6 months!

 

[missy123]

well I have looked at my dates and if I am pregnant then I would be about 3 weeks.

so does anyone think it might be too early to get a pos result?

 

[missy123]

i forgot to say that I am really spotty at the mo too. Only ever get a few spots when I am due AF but I have had them for about 2 weeks now got quite a collection on my face now and they dont seem to want to go!!!!

 

[Happybunny]

It sounds promising, maybe you just need to wait a bit longer to get a stronger hormone level in your system I hope it works out

 

[missy123]

I am hoping so.......

it all seem like maybe just maybe this could be my month, but then I just keep thinking its never going to happen so I must be reading to much into it.....

 

[muppetmummy]

Good luck, I hope you get your BFP

 

[missy123]

Hello all,

still no sign of AF today. Still bloated a little and had a little discharge again.

last night I was back and forth to the loo! Everytime I had a drink I needed a wee! for the last 2-3 days I have needed a wee alot more than normal....

My boobs arent sore at all but do still seem a little bigger but dont feel firm at all. Not sure what thats all about!?

Any thoughts ladies?

xxx

 

[Melly+2]

id wait a few days hun and if you still have negative tests and no af go to the docs they will give u a bloodmtest, try waiting till fri if you can, hope you gedt ur bfp

 

[missy123]

still no AF and no signs shes coming anytime soon!

well I went to see the nurse at mo local GP's and she did another urine test which once again was neg.

I did go there today asking for a blood test and she reckons that urine tests are just the same as the blood tests. Which I believe isn't correct!

Last night after dinner I felt really achey and tired. And had really bad lower back ache all night which I had all day too!

I went to bed and felt so achey and sick on and off, didnt sleep very well as I just couldnt get settled.

I dont know if I am pregnant or not but have been told I need to wait and see if AF shows her face this month. Nightmare..... so now I just have to wait but its making me doubt I am now.

Any thoughts?
Anyone gone or going through something similar?

dawn
xxx