i need ur advice

[Sarah&Braydon]

i know this girl from school and we became close wen I had B! she was my only friend but slowly i am regaining friends, so iv invited her and my other (regained) friends, but my friend (shall we call her the old one lol )is putting up a fuss bout the other friends going, my old friend has never got along with my new friends, and i asked them all to my meal for my birthday i expected my new friends to be a pain but it was my old friend from the minute she picked me up she wasnt in the mood to make the effort with them!!!
she is now complaining that my new friends are going to B's party and doesnt think she will be going as there going she has supported me alot with B but i dont think that i shouldnt invite my other friends coz she dont want them there
wot can i do to keep everyone happy

 

[budge]

solution


cancel the party B would sleep through it anyhow.

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

its strtigically be done over tea time wen the child would not sleep for nuttin lol
even if he dont eeat rite now lol

 

[budge]

to be honest sarah i think you're maknig a huge fuss over it. I wouldn't have invited anyone. I would have only had familiy for a little special tea or something.
What gonna happen is that you're going to have loads of people round. little B is going to get fussed and tired and therefore niggly. you're going to get stressed cos you've invited people who really you should have re quainted with under different cercumstances and the whole party will be overshadowed.

Have a party when you've made a few friends at nursery when hes 3 and invite a couple of speicla little friends for him.

Honestly you're going to so much trouble. And its not really worth it.

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

im having a family meal on his actual bday but wanted something with people who have supported me recently

there is only like 5 of us they is more for the family meal

 

[Strangeness]

You could always go somewhere instead of having them over? I'm taking Aaron to the zoo for his birthday. If you did something like that then maybe they will all be ok because they can be semi apart if that makes sense?

 

[budge]

yeah good idea!

 

[Jo]

I might be out of order here, but i think 1st birthday parties are too much
for a start they don't have clue what is going on,
they get bombarded with cuddles and cooing and it is too much for them to take in.

Emily is haveing a party at an adventure ply thing and there is a baby bit, so it is like a joint party but is mainly for Emily. Jack will be playing with me or his dad and even then i think it might get a bit too much for him

As for you friend Sarah, tell her to get a grip on herselve it is a babys party for gods sake, tell her if she is gonna make the whole thing uncomfotable to not bother coming.

The only one who is allowed to strop on B's birthday is B

 

[beanie]

Seren's naming ceremony is next week and she will be the centre of attention then, christmas everyone is coming round to see her open her pressies and will want to play with her so personally I can't see any difference between that and her first birthday. we are inviting family, friends and babies for a tea at ours. Ok she won't remember it but I want to celebrate my little girls first birthday, and as it is round ours she can go upstairs for some time out, though knowing Seren I'll be the one going not her She loves being the centre of attention and is used to large groups and lots of noise.

I agree with the zoo idea Sarah, think tjhat would be a great compromise. If your friend isn't happy still I would say "I would really like you to be there, as would B as you have been an amazing friend this last year, but at the end of the day it is your decision and you are the one who will decide to be there or not".

 

[budge]

I might be out of order here, but i think 1st birthday parties are too much
for a start they don't have clue what is going on,
they get bombarded with cuddles and cooing and it is too much for them to take in.

Emily is haveing a party at an adventure ply thing and there is a baby bit, so it is like a joint party but is mainly for Emily. Jack will be playing with me or his dad and even then i think it might get a bit too much for him

As for you friend Sarah, tell her to get a grip on herselve it is a babys party for gods sake, tell her if she is gonna make the whole thing uncomfotable to not bother coming.

The only one who is allowed to strop on B's birthday is B

i quite agree with you jo.

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

were already going to zoo on the day of his bday with 1 of my m8s that cant make it to the friend party

i agree beanie i want to celebrate B' bday as it is a big thing for me aswell

 

[beanie]

were already going to zoo on the day of his bday with 1 of my m8s that cant make it to the friend party

i agree beanie i want to celebrate B' bday as it is a big thing for me aswell

shame the weather is so poo or you could have had a puicnic in the park or something, with everyone bringing something to eat. If you have somewhere indoor, you could have an indoor picnic ?????

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

no we dont have some loverly outside places tho lol
ohh that would have been loverly hadnt thought of that damn me having a poop weather baby lol

 

[beanie]

I know, same here. We want to do something in the morning, just the three of us but we are struggling to think of something, especially with it being 2 days after christmas.

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

ohhh that is a difficult one

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I would tell everyone to get along and hold there grudges for B's sake its his special day hun. on Kiaras first Birthday i am gonna invite alot of friends of mine and some dont get along but they always tell me they will put there differences aside for get togethers like this and they do never any problems.
I wouldnt cancel because yoru friend dont wanna come though do what you want and whoever dont like it dont have to come im sure they will understand.
Katrina

 

[cassi]

i agree tell her she needs to grow up, sorry but she is been immature she either goes with them been there or she dosnt its her choice, at the end of the day its B's day and she needs to understand that!