i need some help please

[emmaandamyleigh]

hi im struggling to dicide what to do with amy the day i go into labour as she wont settle for her daddy and dont think hed cope a hole night with her the othe problem is his family are fighting over amy wh will have her as my family live to far away they cant be there and they have also decide that when baby comes home that amy shall stop with who ever for a week but i dont want this i dont really want anyone of them to have her as theres een so much crap lately off them that id rather she stopped with my best friend but shes just found out she pregnant and i dont want her over doing it looking after amy. i really want to introduce amy to her baby sister as soon as she been born an sorted out providing theres no complications and bay is ok i also dont really want her to be gone for a week coz i dont want her to feel left out when baby comes shes not jealous as weve just had my other friend 5 week old stop with us for a few days and she was fine she cuddled baby and she kissed her and even give me her bottle she wasnt bothered that baby was on my knee either. i dunno what to do i wish she could stop in hospital with me that night id worry aout oh not being able to cope with her i have surgested that he goes to his dads with amy so there to help but dont want amy to stop there on her own iykwim what would you do?

 

[Annie050408]

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I didn't know you were preg- where have I been?!!

How far gone are you? I can't seen signatures on tapatalk.

As for the day of labour- get her daddy to look after on his own a few times in the lead up so he is ready. X

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

im 28 weeks today lol yeah nother little one on the way lol yeah i cud do but he needs to learn patience also lol he also works so doesnt get many days off and when he does he comes over to the flat to see us

 

[mumofmany]

where does amy like going, duncan is only 13 months old and i know he loves going my mums and my cousins. I know you cant ask her as she is young like duncan, but what i do is not have mine for the 1st night home so me, hubby and baby get that first night together then get the kids back and then baby tends to get ignored thats why i have that 1st night to be with the baby. a week i would hate though, 2 nights my children stayed out for last time their choice not mine, they came visited me then went again all happy and wanted to stay out, they got spoilt rotten by my mum and mil 2 youngets at MIL 2 oldest at my mums, so maybe tell your hubby's family lovely for the offer of a week but could they just have her for the night you are in labour and the first night home please, as you understand they thinkin of you but you really will be wanting her back. they will still feel needed and not pushed out.