i just wanted to say

[lisa&alex]

that i hope that noone holds my comment against me, i dont revel in slagging people off, infact i feel completly against it, and that was the reason for telling the beckss forum publicly what i did, i pm'd the message to urchin, and also asked urchin if i could post my message here, which she didnt want.

i said what i did to get a reaction and hurt becks, (which i quite clearly did) perhaps in hind sight i have stooped to her level and completly below myself, i wanted to let you all know that i wanted to hurt her because she has completly harrassed and hurt others, and said things that will remain in those peoples lives probably forever. and that was the only reason.

i feel that i have to explain myself.. and this is by no means a justification.

i know that those who know me will know the reasons behind what i did, and this isnt particulatly a message for them. this is a message for those who dont know me, or know me very little. please dont judge me on my comment. because i didnt say it because that was what i felt, i said it to hurt her back for the things she has said.

and hope that you all still feel able to confide in me, and value my opinions after all of this.

lisa

 

[kazlin]

Hi hun,

You just said what a lot of us were thinking. Don't worry, we still luv ya

 

[Babylicious]

I agree

 

[annem]

i have only heard a bit of whats going on but i know from what i've seen of you you would not do anything to hurt any1 without good reason, so fair play!

 

[lisanat]

Hi

Ive only just got the jist of what was going on. But can understand why you did it and it wasnt done without good reason.
Dont worry.


xxx

 

[Jen & Her Men]

I dont know you that well but what i do know of you is all good and you have always been honest and helpful without being spiteful or anything and I think that what you did with the Becks situation was totally justified and needed doing - bullies will continue to bully if they think they can get away with it but you didnt let that happen and I applaud you for that.

 

[Manda&Thomas]

i have no idea what the comment was hun but im sure no1 will judge you on whatever it was
im confused by the whole thing tbh with strange threads poping up everywhere confusing me even more
whatever you said you was proberly in your rights to say it
manda xx

 

[Sammystar]

Perhaps it was sinking to her level, or rising to the bait, but who the hell can blame you?

I certainly wouldn't. The whole situation was pathetic. People like that aren't worth the energy.

I'll not be holding your comments against you..........

 

[enn]

dunno if i seen it or not but read the threads and was around when it was going on. well done to you anyway. bullys like her need to shown whos really boss. she shouldnt be having a child if shes not grown up enough herself.

 

[laetitia85]

No problem hun, don't worry, I think we all know what's going on now and we know you haven't done anythign wrong.

However I'd like to say that I think the mods want this whole thing to be over and done with so i think we should stop posting new threads about it because it will just bring up more and more comments etc. You don't have to feel bad about anything we all have your back on this matter anyway

 

[enn]

yea deffo just read the other 2 and shocked but not gonna say nowt else on the matter as laura posted . they will be deleted

 

[Becs]

I just hope this can be the end of it now. All this nastyness and bitchy comments turn my stomache. It's unecassery to treat people that way and says more about the person saying it than the person they are saying it to.

The mods have banned the worst offenders, so we should be able to get on with the nice welcoming and supportive forum this used to be and have no more about it.

 

[budge]

oh dear another peice of coal for the fire.......



STOP MAKING THREADS ABOUT THE BITCH FORUM!!!!!!! THEY DO NOT EXIST!!!!


STOP IT!!!!

 

[jue]

You were only sticking up for people and yourself, some people need a good kick up the arris.

 

[lauramumof2]

You were only sticking up for people and yourself, some people need a good kick up the arris.

Where would I find my arris?

 

[jools221181]

Perhaps it was sinking to her level, or rising to the bait, but who the hell can blame you?

I certainly wouldn't. The whole situation was pathetic. People like that aren't worth the energy.

I'll not be holding your comments against you..........

^All that!

 

[AnnaR2B]

ditto

 

[A&J]

Double Ditto

 

[BabyLove]

Pfffft! You've Done Bugger All Wrong... Nothings Changed xxx

 

[HappyAlice]

group hugs!