I just dont feel happy at all :-(

[Tasha20]

Thank you Beanie

Yes I will talk to my HV on thursday when she come to see me, I can't cope with feeling like this.

Yes I totaly understand what you are saying and I will wait to decide what I will do.

Thank you for the offer and yes I would like to at some point maybe in a few weeks? when I feel abit better hopefully.

Thanks again

 

[foxymum]

ahh tasha hun
i feel for you coz i've been where you are too& i just want to say it does get better & its only been 3 wks which is nothing,
you are doing a fantastic job being a mummy & you're daughter loves you.
the hardest job in the world is to be a mother, but its the best too & i promise you soon you will feel like this.

like others have said plz talk to your HV tomorrow & see what she thinks, i would say it is just a touch of baby blues & the feeling of being overwhelmed by the whole experience of motherhood.
some days i think i just cant do this anymore, but it passes & you will be fine.
sorry if i havn't really helped.

 

[budge]

tasha i hope you are feeling better soon.
all i can say is do what you feel happy with chick. Newborn baby time is so short you need to enjoy it. Don't do anything that makes you miserable. its not worth it. Be happy

 

[Tasha20]

Thank you all so much, your replys have really helped me

I do want to give up breastfeeding, its the best thing for my Daughter and I know shes happy breastfeeding too.

The health Visitor is due between 10 and 12 and I will have a chat with her then.

Thank you all again you've been wonderfull

 

[hev&madi]

when i was breastfeeding madi constanty wanted milk

so the nurses in special care said if im finding it really hard just put her to the breast for about 30mins and then give her a bottle just to satify her hunger and it worked!

hope your ok hun x

 

[Tasha20]

Hv has been and said what you all said really, that im over tierd and overwhelmed with baby, its all normal

Shes going to keep a close eye on me to make sure it doesnt progress into anything else, but to be honest after talking on here and talking to OH and HV I feel alot better.

Thanks again all

 

[nikki1306]

glad you are feeling better about things hun xx