I had a horrible dream

[Alfiesmummy]

I had one of those dreams last night that are just so real you cant tell if it was a dream or real life.



I dreamt Ian was cheating on me and that he was in love with her and getting a flat with her and leaving mne. I dreamt that she was about 16 and he absoloutely adored her and i was in absoloute pieces!

Iv woke up really sad and been so naughty and checked his emails to check theres none from any girls and now i feel so guilty for even thinking it, thing is i cant shake it now the thought that he is .

I know im being silly but this dream really shook me up its made me think what would i do without him

I could really just cry!

 

[Snuggle]

I've had these dreams too hun. Just tell Ian about it and say sorry for checking emails but explain how the dream made you feel and I'm sure he will understand. I just tell my DH when I have these kinds of dreams and he reassures me

 

[Baileysmummy]

just wanted to give you a

 

[MissGobby]

iv had a couple of dreams like this about Danny hun, i told him about them as they really upset me and i just needed reassurance that he wouldnt (which i know he wouldnt) cheat on me!!!

they are soo life like arnt they, the dreams??

 

[tots hope]

 

[trixipaws]

i had a dream the other nite that my boyf sheated on me with an ugly fat girl! and he wasnt even trying to hide it he was just ignoring me like he wasnt even bothered that i knew. its very upsetting, but its only a dream! go give him a hug!

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

I have these dreams too, can I just ask where in your cycle you are, as I tend to have these very vivid real dreams whn I have PMT.

I dream that hes cheated on me, or just left me, or sometimes even that hes died, but the theme is always losing him somehow and I wake up feeling the emotions as if its real, so so real, I feel absolutely heartbroken but then I see him laying next to me and just have to cling on to him for a bit. The feeling stays with me all day and its a nasty one to shift isnt it.

But it is just a dream.

Dreams can be so powerful, especially when we dream emotionally, but it is just our worst fears coming to the surface and doesnt mean anything other than a touch of insecurity.

Its always good to know we're not alone in this though

 

[Alfiesmummy]

I have these dreams too, can I just ask where in your cycle you are, as I tend to have these very vivid real dreams whn I have PMT.

Im about a week after AF finished

I wish so much i could give him a hug but he works away and isnt back till sunday, i think it could be because i havent seen him for 2 weeks its getting to me now

 

[Snuggle]

Aw here's a hug for you

My DH works away a lot too, its very lonely isnt it!

Dont let the dreams get to you, just remember, they're not real

 

[Melly+2]

 

[Strangeness]

I have dreams like this from time to time. Does my head in! One time I dreamt that my hubby was with another girl right in front of me and he just didn't care that I was there watching it all. That was the worst dream I've ever had!