hope to join you all soon

[babydust]

i just lost my baby on wednesday, i really want to start trying again as soon as possible but i dont want to be disrespectfull to my baby i have just lost, i know i have got alot of grieving still to do but all i want is to be pregnant again, not to replace the baby i have lost as i will never forget about them. i know i will bleed for another few weeks ond wont start ov till after this but do you think its wrong to even think it just now?

 

[Daisy]

Awww Claire, I feel so very sad for you You must be heartbroken I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be pregnant again at all - you must just long to hold a baby in your arms after all you have been though Please don't feel bad about wanting to start trying again straight away, I know I would be exactly the same. You will know what is right for you, so trust your instincts and when you're ready I'm sure you will know.
Thinking of you xxxxxx

 

[libs]

Of course its not wrong - it's not disrepectful to the baby you've lost - in fact it shows how much you wanted that baby and that you'd made a space for it in your family already

 

[muppetmummy]

I agree with the others, it's not wrong at all. If you feel ready to try again you should go ahead with it

 

[mrs_tommo22]

If your body is physically healthy to cope with a pregnancy again so soon after your recent loss claire and you feel ready to try again then go for it.

But why not mske a ppointment with your MW and discuss getting pregnant again as she may have some really great health advice on when to start trying then.

 

[kiki]

I feel exactly the same, lost my baby last saturday. Now I just want time to go quickly so we can start trying again. But at the same time I feel so guilty about it. Take care!!