Hey WTT until finished uni but soo broody

[Aidans Mummy]

Hey I am Heather and I already have a 17 month old son

Currently due to start Uni and know I cannot possible try for another baby until I am financally stable and have an establised career in nursing. Even though that is reality I just wish these next 4 years will hurry up. Because the broodyness just won't go away. I was holding my friends 6 week old baby yesterday and he was so tiny, so sweet. Then it hit me this huge urge to just have another baby. Thinking about when Aidan was a newborn. Soon came back to eath with a bump but I can wish can't I ?

So is anyone else in WTT for a long time. How are you all coping?
xx

 

[Mamafy]

Aww hun once you get into your course hopefully that will keep you occupied

 

[Alibabe]

Hi Heather I have been broody for what feels like forever now so know how you feel. I've really really wanted a baby for the past few years but decided to WTT for a number of reasons. I swear though sometimes when I see a baby I can feel my womb contract with the longing haha. BUT I know when I do have my longed for baby it will be the right time for me. So just bear that in mind, and when you do have your cours finished it will be the right time for you. I know it's not always easy but what you'll gain at the end will be worth it

 

[OneDay]

Hi

I am also waiting to try but not through me wanting too. My husband is not ready yet. I am 25 and my husband is 26. I have been on the pill since I was 16. I am soo brudy but I know it isn't right to force him into having a baby. I want it to be special and exciting for the both of us!!

I just don't know how to speed the process up...he hasn't really been brought up around babies so he is petrified of them. Everytime I try to talk about anything to do with babies he changes the subject. It is getting worse as two of my close friends are now pregnant.

Anyone have any advice?!

Thanks

 

[Bluebell]

Hi when I was a student nurse, not long ago... They gave maternity pay a friend of mine fell pregnant - it was no problem and qualified 6 months after me!!

 

[Tracey M]

Hi Heather... can't you do both but wait again for maybe a year into your course to see if you still feel the same? I think its natural to get broody when your baby turns into a toddler... I was the same but time was not right for me. My wee boy just turned 4 and coil getting out as soon as they can find the lost strings (another story) my mind just concentrated on work and stuff but I won't lie and say that for about 2 months every year it did really hit me again but got through it ok. Good luck you will know What's best for you and your family!

 

[Tracey M]

Hi oneday.... remember men are so stupid sometimes and are hard to let their real thoughts come out... I think you should pluck up the courage and sit down for a good talk. Explain to him how you feel..really feel hut have all the pros and cons ready for him. I bet he is probably scared out his mind at the thought and responsibility of a baby. Along with money worries and also how it will affect your relationship being 3 and not 2 anymore. Ask him but hey, can you get him together with the fathers to be with your friends who are pregnant? It does change your life but I can't imagine our life without our son now. Communication so important he MUST know how you feel...good luck honey x