Help!!

[~Honey~]

Hi Girls, I'm new here but have been around various TTC forums for ages.

I need a bit of help.

Currently I'm CD32, I don't temp or do OPK's (they drive me nuts) and work out my O from CM and pains - this is the way that I believe I O'd on CD15 this cycle. I'm now at CD32, two BFN's and still no AF (white TP all the way). We used Pre Seed this cycle and I have had success with this before (last time we got a BFP, we had BD'd 4 days pre O and still got pregnant - lost it mind you, but that's another story). Anyway, so here I am, in limbo land and I haven't a clue what's going on. My usual pre AF symtoms are draggy back pains, leg cramps and aches, and I usually get a spot under my boobs before AF is due for some reason. None of these are happening at all... I'm exhausted all the time, crying lots, gagging when brushing teeth, feeling vaguely queasy during the day... all the regular symptoms.

We BD'd on CD15 but not any later so even if the lads lived approximately another 5 days (given they had a nice Pre Seed pool to swim in), then I might have conceived as late as CD20 which could make me 12DPO now but surely I'd still have gotten a BFP at that stage???

Help!!! What do you think??? I'm a bit at the mo!!!!

Thanks in advance!!

 

[jemz24]

if you think you are 12 dpo a pregnancy test dosen't always pick up at that time keep testing for another 9 days ( its advised to test at least a week after missed AF) if nothing shows then i guess its a visit to the docs.

 

[~Honey~]

Thanks Jemz - I'll test again on Wednesday and see what's what then. In the meantime, I think I'll just have to stop obesssing about it!!! Easier said than done of course! Thanks for your input.

BTW, sorry to read about your loss, I've suffered two MC's so I know how it is.

 

[EllieBelle]

Its not unusual to get a BFN at 12dpo even if you are pregnant. It would all depend on when implantation took place - usually happens at 6-12 dpo, and its only then that the HCG hormone increases enough to show on a HPT....

I didnt test positive on clearblue digital until 14 dpo, although got BFP's on cheaper tests much earlier!

Definitely worth waiting a day or 2 and testing again....

Good Luck

 

[~Honey~]

Well I guess I've no reason to be cross, as AF is not showing any signs of coming.. so I should be hopeful right?

Thanks Ellie and congrats on your bump!

 

[sandee]

Baby dust and fingers crossed for you Honey!

 

[~Honey~]

Thanks Sandee, loving your avatar pic!

 

[A&J]

Hi,

Good luck when you next test It is not over till the witch arrives I hope she stays away for you.

 

[~Honey~]

Girls, I temped this morning just to see what's what and it was 36.24 - pretty much in my boots to say the least. I surely cannot be pregnant with a temp that low. Ugh@ttcing is all I can say.