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Getting jittery...
- Thread starter Gem
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yes i had two in 15 months so i know how you feel .Its not as bad as it seems though. I found it easier than i ever expected.
It was far easier having it that way than when i had my third who was four years younger than my second.
What you really have to do is get the oneyou have now in a really good routine. Sleeping alone and through the night etc. Take any help you can get oo. I didn't as i was one of those who tried to do everything but i look back and think what a silly cow now.
Don't worry about it. Thing is you'll cope because you HAVE to.
Think of it in a positive way. Your eldest will have a playmate for all his life - and believe me thats so lovely when they have each other to play with. It makes all the hard work when they are babies all worthwhile when you can sit back and watch them play together!
One tip though Stick at two. Three is a whole new kettle of fish
. When you've got three two seems a piece of piss.
It was far easier having it that way than when i had my third who was four years younger than my second.
What you really have to do is get the oneyou have now in a really good routine. Sleeping alone and through the night etc. Take any help you can get oo. I didn't as i was one of those who tried to do everything but i look back and think what a silly cow now.
Don't worry about it. Thing is you'll cope because you HAVE to.
Think of it in a positive way. Your eldest will have a playmate for all his life - and believe me thats so lovely when they have each other to play with. It makes all the hard work when they are babies all worthwhile when you can sit back and watch them play together! One tip though Stick at two. Three is a whole new kettle of fish
. When you've got three two seems a piece of piss.I'm really freaking out at the minute, I'm not very far yet but when this baby is born Aimee will only be 13 months old and I don't know if or how i'm going to cope with two. I have a 5 year old also but she is not problem but Aimee is going to be into everthin and i'm dreading it.
Hi hun,
Awwwwww try not to worry!!!
Thers is 16 months between me and my sister and my Mum said that she really didn't notice it being hard work, in fact as my sister got a little bit older (she was the youngest) that I was a help as I helped her to advance and wanted to spend lots of time with her, so I entertained her and stopped her crying as much as she may have done had I not been there - we are also close which is lovely!
AND my sister is following in my Mum's footsteps with having a 9 month old and she is 14 weeks PG again!
So look on the brighter side it may be harder at first, but fingers crossed it will only be initially!
Good Luck babe, and I hope you have a very healthy and enjoyable pregnancy!
Tam x
Awwwwww try not to worry!!!
Thers is 16 months between me and my sister and my Mum said that she really didn't notice it being hard work, in fact as my sister got a little bit older (she was the youngest) that I was a help as I helped her to advance and wanted to spend lots of time with her, so I entertained her and stopped her crying as much as she may have done had I not been there - we are also close which is lovely!
AND my sister is following in my Mum's footsteps with having a 9 month old and she is 14 weeks PG again!
So look on the brighter side it may be harder at first, but fingers crossed it will only be initially!
Good Luck babe, and I hope you have a very healthy and enjoyable pregnancy!
Tam x
