Finding it stressful waiting!

[debsladybird]

Hi there,

I can't believe how stressed I feel trying for a baby. We started trying in January this year, so this is only our second month of trying.

Am thinking about whether I am am pregnant all the time!!! Its really hard to think of anything else!!

I've never really counted the days in my cycle but last month it was 28 days and this month its been 32 days and still no sign of my period!! I keep thinking I am pregnant but have tested each morning the last 3 days and they have all been negative!!! Am I feeling really fed up and depressed with waiting!

Could I be pregnant but the test isn't picking up the pregnancy hormone yet????

Dx

 

[Bead]

Best of luck for you this month D! It's unreal how ttc becomes a total obsession isn't it!!? I sometimes think it's really driving me nuts but reading other people's posts going through the same thing really helps I think.
Fingers crossed this is the lucky month for us both

 

[Mamafy]

Hi Welcome to the Forum

The stress of TTC could actually be delaying your period or you may be pregnant but there isn't enough hcg in your urine yet.

I'd give it a few more days and retest

Do you have any symptoms?

 

[Princess81]

Good luck with trying hun, these ladies know their stuff! x

 

[x-misspinkuk-x]

hey hun,
its my 2nd month too, and im over obsessing TTC!
the waiting periods that you have to go through is mental.

good luck with your retest hope you get your BFP x

 

[Future mum?]

Hi love. I know exactly how you feel. This is our 2nd month TTC. I stressed myself out so badly last month I made myself physically ill and I think I delayed my af for a few days because of it. I am trying so hard this month not to obsess and so far being quite successful - which is really unusual for me! It is good to hear from other girls in a similar position and helpful to know that most woman dont manage to concieve right away, but most woman do manage to concieve. I wish you all the best for this cycle and hope you get your BFP very soon

 

[frankie707]

Hey, I know its easier to say than do but try not to get too stressed about it because stress can delay your period. But fingers crossed that its your month!

 

[debsladybird]

Hi there all,

Great to hear from others that are feeing the same as me! Thought I was going insane!!! Hope it is my turn this month!

As for symptoms, the only ones I have is some occasional cramps and pains in my lower stomach! But usually about a week before my period I have really sore boobs! This month they are absolutely fine! I keep checking them but not soreness! Is this a sign????

Good luck to all the other ladies trying! I'll be crossing my fingers for you all xxx

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Yep were pretty much all in the same boat lol so its great here as so many others to support us and keep us smiling.....Fingers crossed for you xxxx

 

[Chellybaby88]

Hi debs

I think we all know how you feel and all get a case of the crazies during 2WW.

I wouldn't test just yet until you have missed the witch as it might still come back negative.

to you all xx

 

[debsladybird]

Am going to try and be strong and not test till next weekend! Thanks for all your kind words! Will get back to you to let you know what the outcome is!!!

Good luck to all you ladies trying too!!!

xxx

 

[karenandbump]

Good luck hon - it's a stressful time...worth it all in the end tho xxx

 

[debsladybird]

Day 34 of my cycle and still no signs of the 'witch'!!! But starting to get my usual symptoms so think its on the way unfortunately! oh well will have to try even more next month!! watch out hubby!!! xx

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

Good luck for next time around - sending you loads and loads of