feeling down

[Tara & Liam]

hi

i am feeling down today. i think i am getting a bit jealous of all those who are ttc or pregnant. i think that i would like another one but the surgeon who did my last section said to leave it for a long while as my uterus is paper thin.

i know i should be happy with my 3

plus i have horrible pregnancies.

 

[Wobbles]

Just want to send you a hug ...

Wish I'd just get to having one

My friend is the same as you I think - She has 3 children to her ex husband & her & her partner now want a child together only it could be threatening to her

 

[rach]

hugs to you davina hun (((((()))))))
have they said how long you should wait? xxxxxxxx

 

[Tara & Liam]

hi they said a few years but i am 37 in a couple of weeks, dont think i want a baby when i am 40.

 

[Urchin]

Aw Davina ((HUG))

Is there any tests they could do to see if you're ready or not? Maybe go and see a specialist?

 

[violet-glow]

awww love you ((hugs))

You can borrow zack for the day if you like that would soon put a put a damperner on wanting anymore children

 

[Lilli]

(((((((((((hug)))))))))))

Hi hun, im sorry you feel like this. We all get a bit down sometimes, i appreciate the way you feel but look at all the best things in your life! All your 3 kids!! They must give you a lot of happiness! Go and give them a cuddle! Im sure you will feel better soon xxx

 

[tracyM]

((((((((((huggsssss)))))))))

I know how you're feeling. Next time you're feeling down about it, remember it's not too long before our eldests have kids and we'll be grannies

 

[nicki]

Aww, chin up hun. Sending you hugs. Like the others have said I would see if anything can be done & see exactly how big any risks are first.

Take Care.x

 

[Tara & Liam]

thanks a lot guys.

i really dont want anymore children, i am happy with my 3. its just that now i know that i'm not having anymore (and that medically i shouldnt) then i seem to want one more. like when youre on a diet, you crave chocolate more.

plus to be honest money is really tight as DH stays at home as we didnt want to put them into childcare. once liam is in school then jon can look for parttime work.

and as tracy says grandkids will come eventually and you know what they say about them, grandkids are a parents revenge

 

[violet-glow]

hehe I think ur right on the grandkids are the parents revenge note. My mum always says when zacks naughty, 'well i wonder where he gets that from'

Gald your feeling a bit better, hope your okay x

 

[Tara & Liam]

hi all

thanks for your words of support. i feel fine today, last few nights have been awful with liam waking every 2 hours. i need sleep more than another one