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Hi, I recently turned 37 and have been ttc for around 16 months. I already have a DS with DH who is nearly 7. It’s been a long road getting DH to agree to ttc number 2.
It took around a year to conceive DS and I expected it to take around the same amount of time but it’s taking longer and I feel like it’s never going to happen.
I feel like I can’t really discuss my fears with DH as I worry he’ll turn round again and say he doesn’t want other as it’s happened before.
I had day 21 bloods from the GP and apparently I am ovulating although I’m not convinced the test was done at the right that month as I had a really long cycle.
I’m not sure if I should say anything to DH about my fears, I’m worried he’ll say we can’t even afford another now since we moved house as our mortgage is higher. Should I just keep going as things are and hope it happens? He doesn’t know when It’s my fertile time as I worry it’ll put him off so we often miss the right time.
It took around a year to conceive DS and I expected it to take around the same amount of time but it’s taking longer and I feel like it’s never going to happen.
I feel like I can’t really discuss my fears with DH as I worry he’ll turn round again and say he doesn’t want other as it’s happened before.
I had day 21 bloods from the GP and apparently I am ovulating although I’m not convinced the test was done at the right that month as I had a really long cycle.
I’m not sure if I should say anything to DH about my fears, I’m worried he’ll say we can’t even afford another now since we moved house as our mortgage is higher. Should I just keep going as things are and hope it happens? He doesn’t know when It’s my fertile time as I worry it’ll put him off so we often miss the right time.
