Feel like Im always moaning feeling really down

[Geminiblue]

OK

I wasnt this emotional when pregnant with my boy, but I am really upset at the moment (having a girl), people just really getting to me and Im struggling starting to feel down.

Ive started listing the stuff that I am getting down about and have had to delete it because a) it sounds pathetic b) its too much to go into c) I cant get it to make sense

Maybe this is just how I am today and tomorrow will be better

Please someone tell me this is normal to be scared of having a second being scared of coping, scared and fed up

xxx

 

[Geminiblue]

...and i feel guilty for feeling like this

 

[titch]

dont feel guilty, youre allowed to feel down if thats how you feel, you dont have to justify it to anyone. Are you looking after yourself enough? I know youve got a little boy but being pregnant is hard work so dont neglect yourself.

 

[Piglet's Mama]

Don't have any advice hun as I only have the one and she is only a month so I'm still learning. But wanted to say big hugs and also when I was preggo with Brooke, I panicked big time. It was actually titch who gave me some really great words of wisdom and made me feel a lot better. And all the things I felt soon disappeared, and now Brooke is here I don't know why I even worried. Hope you feel better soon - it is prob just those horrible preggo hormones! Are you sleeping/eating? x

 

[Minchin]

loads of things getting to you + tiredness + probably very little time to yourself + pregnancy = allowed to moan. Don't feel quilty. (easier said than done) xx

 

[Geminiblue]

Titch - thank you and I think youre right, really tired today, my son is a bit poorly and irratic and demanding more so today think its all getting on top of me, tiredness always makes me feel really emotional

Jennyf - think Im not sleeping well either or eating that much now as I get full so quickly I really try to look after myself as I believe in a healthy diet but today I dont think I did too well on food as Jude was pulling me around all day needing things.... I feel guilty coz there are people out there who cant get pregnant, a lot of my friends...and I so wanted another baby, then got told I couldnt have one then had my miracle pregnancy.... so I think you are right with the hormone thing, I feel really detached from my husband as well

Minchin - thanks hun yes its all of it isnt it, Im at work tomorrow so looking forward to having a break from running around (I know that sounds mad but its true)

Thanks so much for support it means a lot xxx

 

[LucyAnn]

Sending lots of hugs tomorrow is a new day xxxxxxxx

 

[Minchin]

Hope you have a good break at work today Know what you mean. Will you be starting your mat leave soon? Sounds like you felt a bit better later on yesterday. Why you feeling distant from OH? any way you can get a babysitter and have an evening together, meal or cinema? Might be a nice treat before you have a new baby around? xxx