Feel like given up :(

[mum2be?]

Hello

Yep i been off pill now since Agut 2006, and feel like given up all ready.

I found out that i passed one of my really important exams which i thought i had failed, meaning that i now can go on to the next level in sep 07 if i wish, meaning its only one more level and i will be a qualified technician account

Only thing is i want a baby and on the other hand feel that i should wait for the year and finishe my last level but this could take me up to 2 years to complete.

I given up TTC this month so only did the babydance 1 around ovlation which im now dissapointed with myself. but me & oh was under alot of pressure and still are.

I really dont know what to do for the best? Feeling really low at mo

 

[mary70]

your still really young hun so no rush just take it as it comes and you would be pg for nearly a year so no reason y you couldnt start your course

 

[Mildly]

Congratulations on passing your exam

If I were you I'd start your next course, I'm sure if you got pg, you could always pick up where you left off at a more conveniant date. Good luck anyway

 

[chellieboo]

awww hun have a huge

congrats on passing your exam!

hope you're feeling a bit more cheerful today. I totally understand how you feel. I think you just have to focus on whats going well in your life and try to let the TTC take a back seat in your mind even if you don't stop trying if you know what I mean - I know its easier said than done though.

anyway more

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

Hi hun, I also know exactly how you feel, we've been trying since nov 05 and are now wating for the rtesults of a smear before proceeding with hormone checks etc.

It can be frustrating, depressing, it can be awful................if you let it.

Thats the conclusion ive come to anyway.

I would start your next year, if anything it will give you something else to focus on, and believe me delaying it while TTC will just put more pressure on you and give you more reason to get frustrated every month, putting life on hold while TTC is not a good idea in my opinion, Ive delayed training as an approved inspector for too long now while TTC and I could be half way through my training now!

 

[cloud9]

it took me 4 years to concieve..during the last year I did my first year of interior design course..I was really glad i did.I intended to do the second year but haven't yet with been pg but if i hadn't concieved at least i would of achieved something.

 

[mum2be?]

Thanks guys!!!



Was feeling very low last night. If i start my course it wont be until Sep 07 anyway so got ages to decide what to do. Did discuss it with oh last night i think he was a bit thrown back bless him.

 

[lainey]

Hello

Yep i been off pill now since Agut 2006, and feel like given up all ready.

I found out that i passed one of my really important exams which i thought i had failed, meaning that i now can go on to the next level in sep 07 if i wish, meaning its only one more level and i will be a qualified technician account

Only thing is i want a baby and on the other hand feel that i should wait for the year and finishe my last level but this could take me up to 2 years to complete.

I given up TTC this month so only did the babydance 1 around ovlation which im now dissapointed with myself. but me & oh was under alot of pressure and still are.

I really dont know what to do for the best? Feeling really low at mo

Your in the right place. We all have high days and low days.

But being positive is the best thing for you. Perhaps "trying" (easier said than done) not to think about it really is the best thing you can do.

I am trying this, its hard, but I am taking my mind off of things with cleaning, friends, socialising and shopping.....

Some times we all just need to sit back and take a look at the wider picture.

I wish you all the best, and remember "Good things come to those who wait", patience is a vertue.

 

[Happybunny]

congratulations on passing you exam!! Sorry you are at such a low eb, i know it is can be really frustrating and TTC becimes your whole world. People's replies have been right, you are young and have lots of time ahead of you. As hard as it is, don't put things on hold...keep living life...if you get pregnant when on your course, there will be things you can do aboutit, like deferring the rest of our course or if worse comes to the worse, just do it again later when you are ready. I am in a very similar position to you at the moment. I think I am going to just get on and start the course, if baby comes then I will leave and do it again later.

Hope you find some answers...don't give up, great things happen when you least expect them

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Congrats on passing the exam, i agree with everyone else i would start and if you need to can always put it on hold.
Good luck for whatever you two decide
Katrina