My O/H does the dream feed at 11.00pm everynight.
She goes bed about 7 - after her 6.00pm feed and then he does the dream feed: He dimms all the lights upstairs (or turm them off preferably!), lifts Heidi out of her cot and takes her into her room to be fed. We used to change her nappy too, but we dont do that now as it wakes her up too much.
He doesnt wake her, she is sort of half asleep / half awake when she feeds.
He then winds her and lays her back in the cot and she goes back sleep. We have been doing this for about 3 weeks now and it has been fab! we have our evenings back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Waiting for it all to go wrong soon though!!!
Let us know how you get on!
L x