Does anyone else feel like this..

[Robyn_]

its hard to explain but like when i start deep thinking about baby and things, i get worried that hes gunna come out with like one arm. or hes gunna be blind or something,
like you dream of having a perfect little baby and that ,and the what if something is wrong? im just worried hes going to be ill
and i dont want him to be obviously.

id love him whatever, but it just really makes me paranoid and stuff, that my baby isnt going to be how i visioned him.

hope this doesnt sound bad. or anything

 

[mrs_tommo22]

They would of said if there was going to be a problem hunni with the babies body and limbs.
Dont worry, your doing what everyone else has done - panic for no bloody reason!!!

 

[Robyn_]

i really cant help it, its like things have gone well so far and i just expect something to be wrong now

ill try not to worry

 

[madam bully]

I keep thinking this too and feel really bad.

Thing is my Mum and Stepdad work with adults with learning difficulties and disabilities and my MIL works in a school for children with disabilities and life threatening illnesses and so it's always there in my mind.

I think it's perfectly normal to worry about stuff like that honey Try to not let it get to you too much xxx

 

[terri73]

Its scary with my first scan i was further along than thought so could not have the nucheal scan so had blood done instead, results came back as very high risk of downs.
I had to make a major decision whether to have an amnio and risk miscarrage of sit it out and hope for the best.
As i'm a worry wart anyway i had an amnio (weirdest thing i've ever done in my life) and all was ok.
I could not of spent the rest of my pregnancy worrying plus i found out i was having a little boy!

 

[Robyn_]

i seriously cant stop worrying about it all.
i get paranoid that i will have im early aswell,
i know now, theres a massive brilliant chance of survival and normal health and stuff
i think its cos i havent got much else to do
i dunno

 

[mrs_tommo22]

The paranoia goes dont worry. We all have fears, its all normal and its our hormones

 

[enn]

nah i just dream of me holding baby and stuff like that and the more i dream it the more i want baby . the more baby stays stubborn and stays in lol

 

[NooNoo]

i deffo know what you mean hun...i have this feeling that mia is going to be deaf or something...i dont know why its so specific..thats what worries me but then i think hey, she is stil a babe and you just have to adjust your life accordingly...ultimatley we all just deal with whatever life throws at us

on a happier note..NOT LONG TO GOOOOOO

 

[mrs_tommo22]

I keep having nice dreams about my baby that im just looking after her and putting her in her moses basket and stuff, sad i know lol! I just keep telling myself 2 weeks to go or one week to go if my dates are right!

 

[NooNoo]

I keep having nice dreams about my baby that im just looking after her and putting her in her moses basket and stuff, sad i know lol! I just keep telling myself 2 weeks to go or one week to go if my dates are right!

or 9 days if you want to make a certain princess's day hehe

 

[Robyn_]

over my pregnancy, i have had mega horrid dreams about my baby, like people trying to take him away and stuff, and i had to tell my mum aboutthem cos i was so upset about it,

im glad that other people are like this and im not the only one.

 

[NooNoo]

your deffo not alone!!

Last night i dreamt I had had mia and she was a red doll with arms and legs made out felt DONT ASK!!

 

[Robyn_]

oo thats not nice

 

[leckershell]

I've had thoughts and dreams like this too - I have a lot of dreams where we all get burgled and me and little one have to hide in the wardrobe as all the men have guns and knives..

And I always keep thinking the baby will be born asleep, or with some sort of rare disease or something don't mean to offend anyone, guess I'm just scared something will go wrong and can't believe how lucky I would be to have a perfect little baby

 

[kitten1102]

over my pregnancy, i have had mega horrid dreams about my baby, like people trying to take him away and stuff, and i had to tell my mum aboutthem cos i was so upset about it,

im glad that other people are like this and im not the only one.

I know what you mean!!! I spent Monday night in the hospital as i was unwell, and had 2 awful baby dreams!! When I told the midwife that was looking after me, she put it down to the anxiety and put me on the monitor so i could hear baby's heartbeat... it's a very reassuring sound!!!