depressed

[Jadie]

Hiya girls.

A few thing have happened this weekend And I have realiesd I am depressed. I have been moody and causeing fights with OH for a while now.I do things to gat him mad them turn it a round on him! biut he does things to bug me too. not really changed his life style since Oliver came.
Then on firday I went to dentist to get some work done. most of my front teeth are crowned due to a kick in the face in a night club years ago. but He cant do anything as I have infection in the roots, so i need yet another opertion on them. I wanted them improvoing for my wedding in august! I am so gutted, it made me think of the truma of when they got broke. On saturday went to a BBq and I had to stay in shade with Oliver, my OH didnt come and take over, not even for a minute so I was left out of the fun. I then I heard him arranging to go out on saturday. Agian I was not invited, when I said I was going with him he went mad. saying I cant leave Oliver. get the feeling he does not want me out?

I feel like oliver is growing so fast, the time has just gone! i dont want the time to go fast!!!!!

sorry for the moan!

 

[hannahbet20]

oh hunny i know how you feel i have had similar problems with my oh not helping and having children changes the whole way you live it really gets you down sometimes talk to your oh about it tell him exactly how you feel things get easier and you learn to adjust to the dramatic change and start living your life again, having all the responsibility can be really isolating and your oh needs to take some on so you can lead a life too, im sorry about your teeth i have really bad gums at the moment from having three in 4 years they are all drained dentist told me i have early signs of gum disease i hope thinks look up for you soon

 

[Rosieroo]

Having a baby is really overwhelming, your life changes beyond recognition. I've only recently come to terms with my new life. Although I love Ella to pieces, it took a while for everything to sink in!

You OH doesn't sound like he's adjusted at all yet - have you tried talking to him about the way that you feel?

 

[emilia]

So sorry you're feeling down... here's a (((HUG)))

Emilia xx

 

[Jadie]

I did try to talk to him yesturday, I said sorry for been moody I think i am depressed but he just said I was always moody! Which is not true.

He does do loads for me around the house, Its just I feel left out when he can go and do what ever he wants. Its not all his fault I am down. I will see the HV tomorrow, see what she has to say!!

I am going to see if OH will feed Oliver for me one night, I am so tired! I bet he will say he has been at work all week so needs his sleep. even though he is on his computer till late ervery night. but that is another story to moan about!

jadie