Hiya. I've had 2 big babies.
My middle daughter was 9lb 5oz and was born in a birthing pool at home. The labour was about 4.5 hours and uncomplicated. I had no stitches and delivered her into the water naturally with only gas and air.
My younger daughter was 10lb. Her head circumference was 38cm and her shoulders were 40cm. The labour was quick and easy, again at home and in the water. Unfortunately once her head was out, the midwives realised her shoulders were stuck and had to intervene.
We both ended up quite bruised but were both fine and didn't have to be transferred to hospital. She did lose a fair bit of weight after she was born and took a little longer than usual to regain her birth weight but apparently that is quite normal for larger babies.
Obviously I raised my concerns this time around about whether I could expect another large baby. My midwife has said that I will almost certainly go big again (he's already on the large side). However, apparently it is not hospital policy in my area to do growth scans so I pretty much being left to it, which I'm quite cross about.
At least they are taking you seriously and you are being well monitored. Is there an underlying cause, such as gestational diabetes?
We have decided to go with a hospital birth this time around, although I would rather be at home. My OH is nervous about the birth and I guess it's best to be on the safe side if the baby gets stuck.
Good luck hun, keep us informed. Hope I haven't scared you with my second story - I am sure you will do fine.