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[hennaly]

I love this forum and after some searching have seen its the only one worth going on so have stppoed any others, anyway there have been so many losses lately that im getting really worked up and paranoid, i dont want to leave but its really not doing me any good reading this and i feel so sad for these poor ladies
I dont know if maybe i should take a break untill im passed the viable stage but know i am gonna miss my daily fix

 

[aramintalovegrove]

Its hard isnt it? I tend to stay away from Tri 1 and the losses section when Im feeling delicate- would that make it easier hun?

 

[Slinky Sarah]

I know i dont beling here hun but please dont think you have to stay away. The chances are hun everything will be fine for you. You are past 12 weeks where the risk is supposed to drop (i know for some unfortunaly it doesnt)

I know this may sound selfish from my point of view and in no way am i having a go ok, but it kinda makes me feel guilty that i lost my babies and made you feel like you have to stay away. I know your not meaning that at hun and im not saying that you are ok.
I can understand your worries hun, now after having 2 im gonna be a total utter wreck but please dont leave cos of our losses ok.

Im sure all will be well with your bubs c

 

[blessed83]

oh hun i am so sorry you feel this way, please dont go, we are all here for each other. ive just posted a topic about worrying. it seems so ironic - they say stress is not good for you when your pregnant but pregnancy itself is the most stressful thing i have ever done.. and i work in a call centre!!!
come here you..
mwah x

 

[Penstraze]

aww hun I think worry is a fundamental part of being a parent we worry all through the pregnancy that everything will go ok and then worry twice as much when they're here!
I am sure the help and suport you can get here more then out weighs the worry of reading about peoples losses, its impossible not to imagine how you would feel in their shoes and feel heart sorry for them and alittle worried that the same might happen to you but I find it easier to focus on the pluses and be grateful every day that I am another day nearer to meeting my little girl! Its easier to say don't worry then to do it but it wont stop anything bad happening by worrying in fact its beter for both you and baby for you to stay as calm and relaxed as possible as someone else has said maybe it will help you to avoid 1st tri and the loss sections but if it really would help you to not worry having abit of time out of PF then we will all miss you and hope you will be back very soon!

 

[hennaly]

thankyou girls, it just breaks my heart when you just start to get friendly with someone an get to know them and they lose their baby i feel so awefull for them and then i start to worry, i will definately keep out of tri 1 i think and chose what i read carefully, i certainly dont want to put anyone off posting about there loss as that is what we are all here for at the end of the day so i appologise to anyone whos post i have not read and hope you understand.

 

[ninjawomble]

Hun you are 14 weeks, so your risk is much much lower, I know its hard to see, but dont stay away hun.
We are all here for eachother to offer advice and share problems

 

[kmac]

I have been feeling similar to you.
It's very worrying when you read such sad stories on here. I also thought about staying away until I am further on but realised that I will worry anyway, and at least on here we can share our worries and support each other through whatever happens. That's what the forum is all about!