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[Alfiesmummy]

I love the little boy Alfie is becoming so much but i miss so much the little baby he was, i miss the stay in hospital and bringing him home, i miss how nervous i was and how gentle we were and i miss so much, i dont feel as if i have had a chance to savour every moment and befor i know it he will be all grown up and leave home, with every milestone i get so much joy but so much sadness to realise thats another step closer to him becoming a little boy. Am i being silly? iv not been able to shake this feeling for a few days now and i just fel so sad. sorry to post here just need to talk really, I know im being silly really

 

[lou79]

 

[violet-glow]

aww you silly cow. *hugs*

Its only natural to feel the way you do. But dont get upset about how your wonderful little boy is growing. With each step you can be proud knowing that you made him the way he is and thats a clever, loving and smart little boy. Think of all the hugs you will have given each otehr by the time hes an adult.

Dont be upset hun, be happy knowing that you have helped him on his way.

 

[Rubys mummy]

Oh darling, its only natural to feel like this-I wish I could press the pause button at the mo, having so much fun with Ruby and I love each day with her..I am aware I only have 8 weeks before I go back to work full time and the thought is making me sick

You have a gorgeous loved little boy, and he will get his own little character soon, imagine when you can have a conversation with him, when he can wrap his arms around you and say "I love you mummy"...he will make you laugh, and tear your hair out!!!

Chersh every moment and dont be sad sweetie, sending big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

oh sweetie i know exactly how u feel, i look at Braydon and think of how it only seems like yest he needed me so much to do everything and now he can do loads of stuff by himself

 

[tracey 2]

ah steph

you are not being silly at all, you have done a brilliant job with bringing alfie up and im sure its hard but like the others have said cherish every moment youi can.

Here if you need a chat anytime just PM me ok hun

 

[nathanmum]

i know exactly what you mean. i just want to make sure i cherish and savour every moment, but then i think back and think awwww i forgot that or miss that.
im dreading the day when he comes crawling in at 1 in the morning and i look at him and think omg when did he grow up.
(im welling up )
i have sooo many photos and film of him which helps to remind me how fab its been so far, thats my most prized pocessions.

 

[Tasha20]

I love the little boy Alfie is becoming so much but i miss so much the little baby he was, i miss the stay in hospital and bringing him home, i miss how nervous i was and how gentle we were and i miss so much, i dont feel as if i have had a chance to savour every moment and befor i know it he will be all grown up and leave home, with every milestone i get so much joy but so much sadness to realise thats another step closer to him becoming a little boy. Am i being silly? iv not been able to shake this feeling for a few days now and i just fel so sad. sorry to post here just need to talk really, I know im being silly really

I feel the same about Oli, I was watching phone videos and photos of her when she was on a few days old.
It goes soooo fast

 

[happy-chick]

 

[Happybunny]

aw sweetie, I have not been in your position, but I can imagine it must be difficult to see your wee man become more independent...but remember...however big he gets, he will always love his mummy!!
M
xxx

 

[budge]

pull yourself together you soft cow!

 

[Alfiesmummy]

feeling better today, just looking at him laughing is pretty dam lovely i just have soft moments, you dont expect your kids to grow up so quickly ... SLOW DOWN!

 

[Baileysmummy]

glad your feeling better, i have gone through a stage like that but i thought it was because bradley didnt love me, hes a dady's boy and never wanted to cuddle me or anything but we have overcome it and hes more loving towards me now as well

 

[Melly+2]

here if you need to talk hun

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

 

[budge]

feeling better today, just looking at him laughing is pretty dam lovely i just have soft moments, you dont expect your kids to grow up so quickly ... SLOW DOWN!

wait till hes going on his first school trip thats when it hit me

 

[chezzabell]

Awwwwwww

I think we all feel the same hun, i cant belive Alastair is 8 months im sure he was only born yesterday. I know its hard u want ur little baby back, but exciting times are ahead as Alfie will turn into a toddler who will gave u so much joy every day as did Alfie as a baby.

Here if ya wanna chat sweetie

 

[Strangeness]

I used to feel exactly the same way and sometimes even do now! But it is so rewarding when you come in from work or the shops and you're little boy shouts mum and gets so excited! It only gets more amazing the older they get! I can't believe how fast the time has gone and I do miss my tiny baby but I love the little boy he has become he's got a gorgeous little personality now and it's amazing!

 

[x-kirsty-x]

feeling better today, just looking at him laughing is pretty dam lovely i just have soft moments, you dont expect your kids to grow up so quickly ... SLOW DOWN!

I dont think that ever changes as they grow up, Josh is 4 now and every day he gets more independent...I just want him to be my baby again!