Sweety girl!!!! Such a shame this has happened but better it has happened now than when litte one is old enough to know!!! Let him try getting SS involved......... as a lawyer myself, the local authorities will come in and assess, see your family and support and close a file!!!! You are a fab mum and you should be so proud of yourself. Or Ex OH on the otherhand should be ashamed of himself. Any real man... would have walked out himself and left you and his little girl a home! xxxx much love to you xxx