can i have some respect? im still human

[Dee1985]

well i hear people moaning all the time and forever seeing posts on here about how people think they can treat u when your pregnant.

iv had a few coments like wow your big from people at work but i hardly ever go out much to hear any other coments
but tonight i went down the local pub to celebrate my uncle passing some exams well i could type for ever but here are the few coments that have stuck in my head

errrrr *staring at me in discuss* "that dont look right"
"god thats going to hurt"
and some old man asking me if he can out his hand on my belly and wait for the baby to kick!!!!


errr how does PISS OFF sound, i hate people thinking that now im preg they can walk up out of now where and put their hands on my belly!!!

and a bloke saying "god im just imaging trying to get something that big out of my ass"
yes its a dive of a pub full of tramps and they are the nice comments u get in there
oh and one bloke said "iv never done a pregnant woman"

 

[Keely]

oh and one bloke said "iv never done a pregnant woman"[/b]

What a dirty sicko!!!!

I also went to a party last night but got the opposite ANNOYING comments to you dionne.....

All night was "when you due?" so I'd say july... "GOD I was 10 times BIGGER then you when I was 6 months!!!" " your bump is TINY!" ... well actually it is not small you silly woman! if you was 10 times BIGGER do you not think you would be in the guinesse book of records for giving birth to an ELEPHANT!

I am going to sit in my flat for the rest of my pregnancy now, cos if I hear anymore stupid comments from people, I am going to end up killing someone!! xxxxxxxx

 

[cassi]

Just stare at them in disgust..pretend to cry and say IM NOT PREGNANT! that will shut them up...i cant wait to do that lmao

 

[hayley]

i like the comment cassi... would love to have the balls to do it thou!!! i'd make a fool out of myself....

what a dirty perv to say he's never done a pregnant woman... i hate the word DONE!!! Lets just hope he never does!!! another one of him in the world is too many!!!!

What is it that makes people want to pass comment - or should i say "makes people think they have a RIGHT to pass comment"

i was only a few weeks pregnant when a lady pulled my top up at work to have a look at my belly! i quickly pulled it down! the first few weeks are awful when all you feel is fat... the last thing in the world you would ever want is someone thinking they can pull at your clothes to take a look.... imagine us pulling a bloke pants down to see his bits because there was a rumour they where small... or having a look down a womans top because her boobs looked saggy.... it just doesn't happen!

Sorry rant over!

 

[nicki]

Dionne, I can't believe someone said 'I've never done a pregnant women' to you, thats just gross, i'm surprised you didn't belt him one

People are so annoying. I wish I had the guts to tell them exactly what I think of them & ask them what gives them the right to comment on complete strangers. Every time I go to sodding Sainsburys several people make remarks - sod off and leave me alone - the last comment I got was (off a man) 'Oh I see you've got the pregnancy waddle' so blo*dy what, i'm carrying another human being, got a very bad back & alot of pain in my hips, groin, legs & pelvis, 'you try walking normally'

Even some of friends tell me i'm fat & that its gonna chaff when he comes out & how many you got in there. Gonna stop typing now, making me angry !!

Nicki.

 

[hayley]

nicki - you made me laugh! not at you - with your comment!!! i'd love to have been next to you if you had of told him to P*** off!!!!

x

 

[nicki]

 

[Dee1985]

there are some anoying people around no man can go up to a woman and put there hands all over there body so y do they think they can when your preg????

 

[Lindsay]

Dionne I can't believe that someone said that to you - 'have neve done a preg woman' what a sicko

I get fed up with people stroking my tummy, some of my work colleagues do it and I think get off!! What Hayley said is true, you just don't go touching people or looking down their clothes so why do it to pregnant people?

I went to Tesco this morning with my mum and two people who I know stopped me and said blimey you are big, how many have you got in there? even mum said after for me not to worry and that I am not big, it's just people don't expect to see you with a bump. It does get you down though, especially when you are conscious that you have put on weight, can't walk properly, everything hurts rant rant rant!!!

Xxx

 

[michelle82]

I used to find it funny how people you hardly know start touching your bump and every where you go even the local shops you get asked whens it due and they start having conversations with you even though they dont know you. But then you have the baby and people still come up to you and stare at the baby and some people even touch them!! I dont go round cooing and touching other peoples babies that i dont know so dont do it to mine!