bedroom antics....

[Emma22]

just wondered how you all felt about having sex at the moment? since i found out im pg i havent really felt confortable with the idea, apart from not having the evergy for it i kinda feel a little bit wierd about it, i know it cant harm the baby but the thought just seems to be there. If you havent BD for a while are you satisfying your OH in other ways to make up for it. Kinda feel like im neglecting OH a little bit.

 

[Charm]

It will do absolutely no harm to the baby.

Since getting a BFP I just can't face it. To be honest I don't really fancy it.

I think a part of me concerned about another miscarriage. And I'd like to get past 9weeks and see the heartbeat which I've never experienced and I think that would relax me into enjoying sex again.

I've spoken to DH about it and he's happy with my reasons but I give him a bit of a seeing to every few days if you get my drift

Cx

 

[cloud9]

I really feel so unattractive right now I really can't be bothered with it...We have twice since i concieved the first time i was worried the second time was more relaxed he might get it again in another month if he's lucky LOL

 

[jennywren]

My OH is the one who is scared to do it till after 3 months I said to him ''you dont really think you are that big that your willy will touch the baby do you?'' ha ha

I wasnt interested for the first 8 weeks at all, no im begging him for it (bet he loves it ) but he said I have to wait another week Rampant Rabbit it is then I told him

We did it once so far, I presume he just sorts him self out in the mean time as the bins pretty full with tissues and I know he dont have a cold

 

[Charm]

We did it once so far, I presume he just sorts him self out in the mean time as the bins pretty full with tissues and I know he dont have a cold

Poor OH's

 

[Emma22]

i think i kinda feel the same as you charm that ill relax a little when ive seen the heartbeat and stuff. i havent paid him any attention in about 3 weeks now and tbh dont feel like it either, sore boobs and feeling sick isnt exactly a turn on! oh well as long as im not the only one i feel a bit better now, he can wait a bit longer

 

[Peanut]

My Dh is scared too, but I'm so horny!!!! Sickness hasn't kicked in yet obviously...

 

[Rosieroo]

I've been too tired to contemplate doing it very often, and just don't fancy it. Have been helping him out in other ways, ahem, but sometimes wish he'd just sort it out himself. Hell, I'm tired, don't want to be prodded

 

[maybebaby]

I went off it completely to begin with but am back with avengence now...

OH once called it 'rocking the baby to sleep' so I don't think it bothers him at all...

 

[kirlykird]

oooh i feel like the odd one out

I'm still doing daily, through tiredness,sickness every thing..makes me feel better...

Think I have a high drive!

Nothing has changed since we first met ...17 months later...still a daily occurance..not letting pg spoil that!

 

[Emmylou]

We have BD'd - only after first scan though, we were both worried before then, even though we know it won't harm the baby, we were worried about another mc.

We are a very tactile couple anyway, always kissing and cuddling, so he gets his affection and attention in other ways, and the occassional long shower must be more than a shave (ahem).

 

[Gnomentum]

Felt really rampant the first few weeks but with the sickness and tiredness we haven't been getting much compared to normal (still maybe twice a week) - OH has injured his back recently so he's not feeling too much like getting energetic either, so I guess the timing's not too bad

Hope to get more back to normal in the second trimester, I miss the closeness especially as I'm sleeping lightly and can't snuggle up at night like I normally do..

 

[Emma22]

yeah im missing the closeness too...

 

I've been too tired to contemplate doing it very often, and just don't fancy it. Have been helping him out in other ways, ahem, but sometimes wish he'd just sort it out himself. Hell, I'm tired, don't want to be prodded

Hahaha sounds like me, I don't want it at all, god knows where my sex drive went, it was gone before we conceived, but I wish he would go and entertain himself

 

[fynemum]

I would say my drive is high but lately i haven't been so keen, every night gets a bit much And under normal circumstances i enjoy the long sessions but gezz oh, get it over with already I fake it alot just now but truth is i have been tired and the bigger boobs he loves are not for twiddling with..ouchy... i make the effort i think, and i know it doesn't and won't harm the baby, but for me, I know i will get my drive back and it's just a phase.. i hope? Anyway now and then i sneak into bed and give it the heavy whilst he is in the shower getting himself "super clean for me" his words! Yeah Righty not tonight dear Did i say i make the effort? ok now and then

 

[Emma22]

 

[Emmylou]

 

[oldermum]

Hurrray at last BD with OH, he's been negecting me, he wanted to wait til i'd been to the doctors, but he's been enjoying himself with my help , so i had a moan last night It worked.

Afterwards he said 'you better had be pregnant after that' lol, i slapped him

 

[sarah113]

i used to want it all the time even in my last pregnancys, but this time i just cant be bothered im so tired all the time or feeling really sick, mayb ill get my sex drive back soon lol

 

[fynemum]

Afterwards he said 'you better had be pregnant after that' lol, i slapped him

Too funny! My Oh said to me..." so now your pregnant you don't want big bobby anymore! I know i shouldn't have laughed But.. my goodness aren't they just so full of themselves ! !
Like when we told friends, He was strutting his stuff; calling himself the super stud Sperminator ! OMG.. This coming from my 5'2" Balding, falsed toothed, pot bellied, sticky oot eared love kitten.... Whom I love dearly.. but then i have a sense of humour