Intuition tells me a boy. I did really want a girl, but now I find I really dont mind either way, we will have at least one more so it would be nice to have a mix, just so long as I dont end up with 3 boys running rampage lite in desperate housewives!
Yeah I never really thought about home births for the first, cause you dont really know what to expect, if I get last minute complications or I find the pain is a lot worse than antcipated then its a little bit of a trek to get to the hopital, I think I'd rather just have the option of having everything I need around me for reassurance. Its not like they keep you in for very long these days, and I could probably do with the help of midwives round me while I try to get the hang of brest feeding and stuff.