Annoyed or no patience anymore?

[SpiritedAway]

I just need to vent I guess.. I turned 26 weeks this week and feel so frustrated with people. Some days I just want to be left alone, I got hospitalised the previous Tuesday for 2 days for dehydration/hyperemesis and then this week I developed a chest infection so I am super fed up anyway.

Family are just taking advantage, my dad in a bad mood screamed at me and my sister on Mothers day of all days so I left as it really stressed me out (he apologised after and was really worried as i left in the middle of a city and he was my ride home) and then this Friday left me waiting in my coat for 30 minutes with this flu only to find out he and my mum had gone out for food before picking me up and not telling me so I was sat for ages waiting.

Im just so fed up, before id take it as im quite a calm, forgiving person but I exploded. Ive just cried.. friends too irratating me as I have to go visit them, or they never get in touch its all just so oneside and im the stupid doormat.

Its probably my hormones/being unwell but I have officially no patience with people right now.

Anyone else the same? Or is this just me? I feel like i am being a super unreasonable cow and felt so terrible after the two family things and the friends, i feel like its all me.

 

[M1chelle]

I think we all handle our emotions differently and there have been times when I have been totally out of character, crying for no reason. I've never really experienced hormones really as I've been on the pill for so long. Things sound a little stressed in your family so maybe you can all talk it out? Explain that you need to be as stress free as possible at at the moment as things are getting on top of you. I'm sure they'd understand. And friends? I often find it's me doing all the hard work. I get fed up with it in the same way and just usually back off and let them realise. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't.

Either way, I hope you feel better soon. Maybe some you time would help matters? I'd really like to arrange some pregnancy massage.

 

[Onedaysoon25]

I turn 26 weeks tomorrow and I have been feeling extremely frustrated and irritated by things that would usually go straight over my head. I think it might our hormones at this stage and hopefully we will be back to ourselves soon x

 

[SpiritedAway]

Thanks girls x

I calmed down a little now, I did vent to my mum that I needed time to myself and what had happened had upset me as im struggling to be "me" right now. Despite being unwell DH and I opted out of family lunch and went out on our own instead for the day.

I know its totally out of character for me, stuff like that happens and I'm forgive and forget but I was so angry over being shouted at and then that following week being left like an idiot waiting for something i didnt really need to do for them, when usually I just dont mind.

Strange aswell, never felt so overwhelmed and stressed on that mothers day. I usually just let stuff go over my head and ignore it but needed to escape from it. I think I have pushed myself so much trying to do things when Im not 100% i popped.

Me time is definitely needed, ive had a day today where i just drew my curtains and watched favourite films. Oh I love a massage M1chelle, hubby is good at giving them and they chill me out so much so maybe looking into paying would be a nice treat.

Lol I hope so Onedaysoon25, I really dont like being like that, its not nice when you know its not really you is it? x

 

[1sttimemum2b]

Hyperemesis gravidarum makes you realise who truly care and who your true friends are.
I am 23 weeks 3 days and been suffering with it since 6.5 weeks so no wonder you are irritable and fed up. It's bound to take it's toll don't be so hard on yourself

 

[StephHarris212]

Yep, same thing here. Irritable all the time. I always try and have a little me time before I head to work. But, I have some of the rudest coworkers.. In a middle school no less. I had gone into a classroom to help one of the teachers with getting her computer back onto the system and she's going on about the size of my stomach. Asking really personal questions and then a student of hers is sitting in the back and the kid says you look like a fat F'ing cow. The teacher totally ignored what he said and proceeded to ask more private questions that I didnt feel comfortable with. So, that really had my face red I could feel it and I just got up real quickly and I said the hell with you bitch call my assistant if you want access to your email. You and your little ahole over there can have a nice day. I practically ran out of there with tears in my eyes. So, I definitely understand. And, normally something like that wouldn't bother me cause name calling is something I'm used too they are teenagers not much I can say or do. But, I did get written up for what I said that day. Which sucks. Some days are better then others. But, my suggestion is nice relaxing Baths. And definitely a nice movie you can cuddle up too or a nice massage. What works for me is meditation honestly. It helps keep me calm. It's not a cure but it helps. Maybe try some meditation too?

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