JoAnn&Aimee
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UPDATE: I spoke to my mum about the situation as it was starting to upset me this afternoon. She phoned me back 15 minutes later explaining that she had spoken to my dad about it. My dad's advice was to stick to my guns and fight for what I want, which is weird to hear from my dad as he is always looking for peaceful solutions. My parents have said that I need to be happy with the cot as it isn't fair to be landed with a cot that I don't like or want. My parents think his dad is the one being unreasonable about it not me and they said that if his dad still won't listen then we've to tell him to forget the cot and that my brother will get us it instead. I discussed this again with my OH who agreed to phone his dad but unfortunately he was working so he spoke to his mum instead. His mum is going to have another word with him about the Humphreys Corner cot and hopefully
his dad will listen but I doubt it as his dad is very strong minded and extremely pigheaded when it comes to these types of things.
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My OH and I got into a massive argument last night. My parents are buying us the pram and my brother was buying us the cot. When his parents heard that my parents were buying the pram his dad went on the offensive and said 'well we are buying you a cot then!' I tried to tell my OH to tell his dad that my brother is getting the cot but he never did. I don't get along with his parents at all so I can't say anything about it.
For months I've had my heart set on the Humphreys Corner cotbed from Mothercare, my brother even saw it and agreed that was the one he'd get us but now that OH's dad is getting it he told my OH on the phone last night that it is 'fancy and expensive' and that I've to be 'grateful' he is getting us the cot!! I suggested that we go halfers with it but his dad scoffed and said 'you can't afford it!'.
After my OH got off the phone we started arguing about it and he says I am being unreasonable by wanting this cot despite the fact he loved it as well! I feel so frustrated because my brother was suppose to be getting us it and now his dad has took over and the decision about which cot we get has been taken away from us.
I am not being ungrateful that he is buying a cot but I know he is only doing it because my parents are getting the pram. These are important items for my baby and I want a say in it! My parents understand this, as does my brother, but his family just doesn't see that. They see me being ungrateful!!
It is just getting me so down.
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My OH and I got into a massive argument last night. My parents are buying us the pram and my brother was buying us the cot. When his parents heard that my parents were buying the pram his dad went on the offensive and said 'well we are buying you a cot then!' I tried to tell my OH to tell his dad that my brother is getting the cot but he never did. I don't get along with his parents at all so I can't say anything about it.
For months I've had my heart set on the Humphreys Corner cotbed from Mothercare, my brother even saw it and agreed that was the one he'd get us but now that OH's dad is getting it he told my OH on the phone last night that it is 'fancy and expensive' and that I've to be 'grateful' he is getting us the cot!! I suggested that we go halfers with it but his dad scoffed and said 'you can't afford it!'.
After my OH got off the phone we started arguing about it and he says I am being unreasonable by wanting this cot despite the fact he loved it as well! I feel so frustrated because my brother was suppose to be getting us it and now his dad has took over and the decision about which cot we get has been taken away from us.
I am not being ungrateful that he is buying a cot but I know he is only doing it because my parents are getting the pram. These are important items for my baby and I want a say in it! My parents understand this, as does my brother, but his family just doesn't see that. They see me being ungrateful!!