Right, this will be another long one - sorry
We are stuck. My OH has been offered a job in the DRC (Africa) for about £4500 a month doing project management on a construction site.
Its a really good opp, however it means that he is away for 6 weeks then home for 10 days and so on.
We are South African, so would mean that we would go home and me and LO will stay with my mum (which I have wanted forever cos its so hard being away from my family - we are very close). My sister has also offered me a job with her company and has said that I could work from home so LO can be with me during the day.
With me working, I can use my salary to live on and money that OH gets can be put into savings. We worked it out that if we had to save his salary for a year, we would be able to buy a house in SA cash.
Problem is, OH will be away from me and our new baby.
Its such a good opportunity looking at it long term, but short term it means that sacrifices will have to be made.
If you were in my position, what would you do. Would you take the job, or would you stay?

We are stuck. My OH has been offered a job in the DRC (Africa) for about £4500 a month doing project management on a construction site.
Its a really good opp, however it means that he is away for 6 weeks then home for 10 days and so on.
We are South African, so would mean that we would go home and me and LO will stay with my mum (which I have wanted forever cos its so hard being away from my family - we are very close). My sister has also offered me a job with her company and has said that I could work from home so LO can be with me during the day.
With me working, I can use my salary to live on and money that OH gets can be put into savings. We worked it out that if we had to save his salary for a year, we would be able to buy a house in SA cash.
Problem is, OH will be away from me and our new baby.
Its such a good opportunity looking at it long term, but short term it means that sacrifices will have to be made.
If you were in my position, what would you do. Would you take the job, or would you stay?