Recent content by Stressyhead

Awww, thanks everyone for your support, you've all been really nice and incredibly supportive :-) I know there is a long way to go but hopefully we'll work through it! In a weird way it's good to know that not every couple is perfect... us definately included! And the code word is a...

Oh and by the way, "50 shades of grey" are erotic novels for women that are really popular at the moment, which at the time he gave them to me I thought was a bloody nerve seeing as we weren't doing it anyway! Lol xx

Hi guys thanks for all your support, I'm overwhelmed by you lovely ladies reaching out and offering your help and experience when it's not something as a woman you can easily admit and talk about, and for that I appreciate every answer on here :-) We had a massive talk last night that lasted...

Omg Cosmicgirl we have very similar OHs it seems!! I've cried myself to sleep some nights too. Its a constant mental battle in my head as to whether I should put up with it as he's great in all other areas, he pretty much is my best friend and no doubt loves me like I love him and I know some...

My goodness, I didn't realise there were lots of women in the same shoes as me Cosmicgirl, it's such a sad situation isn't it :-( I love him so much and on paper he's the perfect doting husband which makes it so hard to decide. Some days I can say I'll happily go without sex and other days I...

Hey all, thanks so much for all your replies, don't know where to start really hehe. Just want to add that as far as I know his job isn't stressful - it's pretty much an office job and he doesn't stay late or bring work home etc and he's not the type of person to sweat the small stuff, in...

Thanks everyone for replying and for your thoughtful answers. Good to know I'm not the only woman who wants it more than her man!! I think he did used to try and please me back in the early days then got bored because he couldn't get there. He also admitted a month ago he doesn't like the...

Thanks for the reply :-( he refuses to see a doc as said there's nothing wrong in wanting it once a fortnight and I'm the pest who wants it more often :-( I've spoken to him about it several times and he refuses to see it as a problem just keeps saying it's my issue and if I'm that bothered buy...

Sorry meant hug not jug stupid phone!!! He also said he sees me as his lover but more his very very best friend too and he lives for when we spend time together but then says I talk too much when we have a conversation :-( Has also hated kissing all the time we've been together I dont think...

Just after some advice really as feeling very insecure and down atm... Been with OH 8 years, married for 1. Sex life has always been "OK" but never amazing to be honest. When we moved in together after 5 years I asked why he refused to pleasure me (had never ever done it once) and he said and I...

Awww thanks you three for your kind wishes :-) just hope this isn't a fluke and that I'll be regular from now on! Will start taking ac again tomorrow (stopped when got positive opk) so hopefully it'll encourage things even more so. I'm so relieved that I don't even mind the pain, lol! Xx

Probably a pointless post but needed to share! After 6 months of waiting after stopping bc, af is finally here! I've never been this happy to be doubled up in period pain lol!! I really hope this means that everything is normal again so we can start ttc properly! Don't know if it's a...

Hi Jaybay, I will also be 14 dpo on Sunday and looking to test so fx for the both of us, the wait is so hard isn't it! :-( know exactly what u mean. I have had sensitive nipples, feeling exhausted, had period like cramps last weekend but that's about it really, some women don't have symptoms at...

Well I stupidly took a hpt yesterday and of course it was bfn, i know it's way too early but I was just curious and now I wish I hadn't done it! I'm getting to the stage again of pinning my hopes on the date I test again (this Saturday). I know if it's a bfn I think I might go insane :-( I...

That's great, Balthazar1275, thank you :-) xxx