work question - please help!

[jenna]

If you worked on a team of 4 and you were all the same grade and had the same training what would you do if:

Your manager tells you that you have to work somewhere else for a short amount of time, that its you doing it because no one else wants too and even if its making you upset you have to do it because 'people have to do things they dont want to do'

Its happened before but it stopped and there making me do it again. What would you do if this happend to you? I think im over reacting but im not sure and im feeling really ill again

 

[mary70]

couldnt you look for another job hun?

 

[jenna]

I could but other than this im really happy here, well its my 1st full time job and its like i dont know anything else, id be lost with out this job really.

I hate going on another team, i feel like there descriminating against me because im a push over

 

[Babylicious]

Is it written within your contract that you must do this?

Are you the youngest on the team?

Do you have a human resources representative on site?

 

[mary70]

do u have a union rep hun that u could talk too?

 

[jenna]

no not in my contract, i am the youngest and im not sure.

I complained to my manager last time and said it was making me really ill and if she sent me again id walk out and she stopped sending me. My new manager is saying i might have to go again and some how iv become a 'rep' for this team WTF?!?!

 

[Babylicious]

Firstly you are going to need to be assertive with these people, they seem to think that you are a push over and it's less hassle to get you to go than someone else.

ACAS are great for advice hun, give them a try.

Personally I would dig my heals in but then I'm a b1tch

big hugs

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

whats your job hun and where are they moving you too and why? Might give us a better idea of whats happening

 

[jenna]

I dont want to be a push over, i did some one a favour and then it was 'can you do this can you do that' and then its like everything is up to me. Im so angry, i said i wasnt happy and im more than willing to do something i dont want to do but only if its FAIR! Aparently its me because the others have worked here longer and its just that people listen to them more or summat, iv worked here almost 2 years!!!!

8) I kept my cool, just!

I know im going to end up breaking down and walking out if they ask me again. They trick me all the time and say 'it'll only be an hour' and ill end up there all day!!

 

[jenna]

whats your job hun and where are they moving you too and why? Might give us a better idea of whats happening

i work as an AA and i register and despatch cases there trying to send me to a small room with about 20 people in, its all closed off so no one can get in or owt with out a card (so i already dont feel a part of the team) and they do passport stuff. I was trained last year, they told me every one would be trained incase there ever short staffed but im the only person that has been and im the only person ever to help out even though theres about 30people trained!

 

[Babylicious]

 

[NooNoo]

no they are taking the p!ss...im sorry but i would say to them exactly what you said on here...why should YOU have to do this??

And..they cant just make you a 'rep' without first consulting you...if they have that means they shoul be paying you more money as you have more responsibilites...dont let them walk all over you

OOOOOOO they get me soooo mad can i come and shout at them for you??

 

[jenna]

And..they cant just make you a 'rep' without first consulting you...if they have that means they shoul be paying you more money as you have more responsibilites...dont let them walk all over you

OOOOOOO they get me soooo mad can i come and shout at them for you??

I know Im a rep and every one seems to know about it but me. He just said 'iv had a word with **** and she said your the rep for this team' HUH!?!?! lol.

Yes you can hun Id love to have a go and say my points but i get too upset and then i just look stupid and forget what i wanted to say. next time i get messed about im going go crackers!
My chest is really tight and painfull again I dont really need this right now

 

[NooNoo]

they have no right by law to do that...and as for getting upset and forgetting your words...stil make your stand..get upset in front of them it can only help your case...personally i would seek help through your union..do you have one?

Dont let them do this hun...no job is worth your health

 

[laetitia85]

do u have a union rep hun that u could talk too?

i was just going to ask the same question