today i'm very up set......

[neeko_1]

today has not been a good day for me.... I've been crying and just not feeling happy i hope it's just my emotions and not something else .... but I've just been crying on and off...

but this might be partly

me and my mum are not getting on still, she still wants me to get rid of MY baby she thinks i'm not ready to bring a child into this world. I'm only 19 , 20 when i give birth but i need my mummy by my side helping me... i'm scared myself, this is the most important thing you can every do... bring up up a child, but i need her support not her anger she's know for 14 weeks now and still nothing has changed i just don't know what to do any more.. i just don't feel happy in my home and want to leave because i can't afford to be upset when i'm carrying my child...


oh sorry ladies please for give i'm just teary today

 

[Kat@girlracer]

Awww I couldn't imagine what that feels like - but i'm sure her reaction is just because you are so young - but once you prove to her that you are stable & mature enough to cope with a baby i'm sure she'll approve & support you.

Do some research about babies & perhaps do stuff round the house to prove that you're no child and you can do this - use your intiative & get her to notice what you're doing...

 

[Melly+2]

her views might change, my parent wanted me to get rid of my baby but they love my little girl now and arfe always asking to see us, hope it gets better, i was 18 when i got pg x

 

[Londoner Claire]

Do you have the support of your partner and other family? She'll come around as soon as she sees him/her.