I moved to England 6 months ago (for study, work and OH)
But the thing is..Almost everyone of my friends forgot about me.
They said they will miss me and we will stay in contact, but even my (former) best friend doesn't talk to me at all.
Whenever I try to talk to her or other friends on either Skype or Facebook, they just ignore me or only answer things as 'Yes, I'm fine, you?'
I can't really ring them up because that will cost me and them way too much money (that's why I would love to talk to them on Skype, but that's not really possible if they don't want to)
It just let me realize that I wasn't a big deal in their lives.
The only one who visits me in the holidays is 1 friend (who I now see as my best friend as she does the same for me)
All the others just can't be bothered to even talk to me. And when I came back to visit my family and them, I invited them over to my old house and they said yes, but didn't show up.
It kinda started ever since I got engaged that they think that OH is more important than them, even though I always told them and OH that friends are as important than him (but a bit different ofcourse)
Not only my friends, but also my former church never contact me anymore, not even my family apart from my grandparents.
I may sound like a little 13 year old ranting about this, but it really stings to know that you're not as important to your friends and family as you think you was.
I don't want them to need me to live a happy life, I just wanted them to have that happy life including me. Might be selfish but I find it quite sad.
Just getting a bit lonely here since all I have is OH and 1 friend but I literally don't know if he's alive or not
But the thing is..Almost everyone of my friends forgot about me.
They said they will miss me and we will stay in contact, but even my (former) best friend doesn't talk to me at all.
Whenever I try to talk to her or other friends on either Skype or Facebook, they just ignore me or only answer things as 'Yes, I'm fine, you?'
I can't really ring them up because that will cost me and them way too much money (that's why I would love to talk to them on Skype, but that's not really possible if they don't want to)
It just let me realize that I wasn't a big deal in their lives.
The only one who visits me in the holidays is 1 friend (who I now see as my best friend as she does the same for me)
All the others just can't be bothered to even talk to me. And when I came back to visit my family and them, I invited them over to my old house and they said yes, but didn't show up.
It kinda started ever since I got engaged that they think that OH is more important than them, even though I always told them and OH that friends are as important than him (but a bit different ofcourse)
Not only my friends, but also my former church never contact me anymore, not even my family apart from my grandparents.
I may sound like a little 13 year old ranting about this, but it really stings to know that you're not as important to your friends and family as you think you was.
I don't want them to need me to live a happy life, I just wanted them to have that happy life including me. Might be selfish but I find it quite sad.
Just getting a bit lonely here since all I have is OH and 1 friend but I literally don't know if he's alive or not
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Such a shame some people arnt bothered anymore especially when you are going through such a big time in your life. Big hugs to u hun xxx
