Men!!!!! sorry need a moan

[mum2A&L]

why do men have to pick arguements over nothing!!!!!!!!!!

ive felt crap all morning, i was doubled over at 6 ish, with loadsof pain. and it was such a big deal for him to look after alice (who is still a bit blocked up), while i wasn't able to. she ended up wiping her nose across his dressing gown, and he got all moody, so i ended up taking alice back, and he stormed off into the living room.

now he has decided that we shouldn't stay at my mums this weekend becuase alice is still snotty. When i said that we will see how she later, because she tends to perk up after her morning nap, he stormed off into the living room again moaning i never listen to him i didn't disagree with him, i was just aware she seems like a different baby after her nap.

I know im most prob not helping what with still feeling ill and so im ratty, but he keeps picking at me with stupid little things.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sorry needed to get it all down before i snap at him and have a go.

ignore me. promise i won't moan again

 

[WnnabeMummy]

Men can be sooooooo frustrating and it's always our fault never them

Hope you feel better soon

 

[MissGobby]

hun he sounds just like Danny he is ALWAYS right, i never listen to him, i always pick fights with him bla bla bla - when im only SAYING something (if he doesnt like it i am 'making an argument') grrrr

 

[trixipaws]

 

[SarahB]

 

[Tasha20]

Aww hun

I think alot of the time that our partners get frustrated is becuase hes worried about you, seeing you in all that pain is proberly tearing him apart.

Men cant concentrate on 2 things at once, so looking after alice while shes groggy and thinking about the women he loves in pain is very stressful for him to.

In no way am I condoning what he is doing, its certainly not helping but just remember the male species cant cope with more than one thing at once

When im stressed out with my problems its reflects on my OH all the time and we both take our worries and stresses out at each other, why not ask your OH the next time he needs to take alice as him to take her out in the pram for a walk so you can have 5 mins to yourself that way you wont feel the need to go get her causing more anger between you two, he will have to sort her out and you just concentrate on feeling better

 

[mum2A&L]

thanks girls.

i know your right Tasha, it just got too much yesterday.

i think it doesn't help that he works from home, and we spend all the time together. I try and find reasons to get out everyday or we drive each other loopy.

thanks again girls what would i do with out you all

 

[foxymum]

awww Sam hun, heres a for you