Hi....Help

[Bru_D]

Hi all..

I just signed up and I'm so confused as to why and what I want, I think I know then I'm lost all over again so hoping that I can find others I can relate with.

I'm 24 and have a 3 year old little girl (my life) she was planned so this isn't the first forum I've joined as I remember TTC 4years ago (feels like yesterday).

Her dad and I sadly broke up (temporarily) but were back together now and i am battling myself as to whether I should start TTC or not...obviously no one here can give me the answer and when I think about it I know the answer..I want another baby but I'm scared!! I said it.

I've just started a new job, just graduated (finally) supposed to be starting a business, re-kindling that spark with my BF, want to get married first, and worried my first born will feel left out, am I even capable of loving another as much as I do her... Just got my body back...after endless, exhausting gym sessions... But I want another baby and so does BF. so many reasons why I should wait but I can't....

 

[TashaWink]

Hi and welcome. There's not much anyone can say to you. It's all about what you want/feel. It sounds like there is a lot of reasons but does your want for a baby over weigh them?

You definitely will be able to love another like you love your daughter. She shouldn't feel left out along as you include her.


Not much else I can say but welcome.

 

[LikeJohnnYoko]

Welcome to PF Why not post in the relationships section to get some advice and perspectives on TTC with your partner.