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Hello and welcome to the forum 
I'm so sorry for your losses but very happy that you have gone on to have a lovely family despite this. As for you being too old, what rubbish!! If you want more children that's fine and if you're having problems with your cycle get yourself to your gp and have a chat with them about what you want. If they're rude, get referred to someone else who will help you. Don't take no for an answer hun, if having more children is what you truly want then get yourself seen and make sure all is well with you.
Good luck hun
I'm so sorry for your losses but very happy that you have gone on to have a lovely family despite this. As for you being too old, what rubbish!! If you want more children that's fine and if you're having problems with your cycle get yourself to your gp and have a chat with them about what you want. If they're rude, get referred to someone else who will help you. Don't take no for an answer hun, if having more children is what you truly want then get yourself seen and make sure all is well with you.
Good luck hun
Hey honey, welcome to the forum, there is loads of support here if you need it and there will be someone who's been through something similar. I lost my first in the same way as you lost mason at 40 weeks 6 days. I know how horrendous it is and I don't think you ever fully recover. That was twelve years ago on 9th January and I still think of him every day. I had Tim 18 months later and then last year after a very ropey pregnancy I had our gorgeous boy Alex. I''m 38 next week and if my husband hadn't had the snip, I'd love another now so no, I don't think age is an issue. What I would be concerned about is if you are emotionally ready so soon after losing Mason. I had Tim 18 months to the day after losing Christopher and I so wasn't ready for another baby. I reckon it took me 4 years to get my head straight after Tim was born so make sure you speak to the professionals if you need to.
Good luck sweetie, I hope you have a baby in your arms soon
Jen
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Good luck sweetie, I hope you have a baby in your arms soon
Jen
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Welcome Vectra You've been through a lot, I myself have had one loss @17 weeks and I still find it difficult to accept I can't imagine how you've felt. Just want to say your obviously a strong lady and I wish you much luck on your journey in having a healthy happy pregnancy again with a new bundle of joy to cherish.
You've found a great place to come and talk and it can be much easier as you say when its not face to face.
You've been through a lot, I myself have had one loss @17 weeks and I still find it difficult to accept I can't imagine how you've felt. Just want to say your obviously a strong lady and I wish you much luck on your journey in having a healthy happy pregnancy again with a new bundle of joy to cherish.You've found a great place to come and talk and it can be much easier as you say when its not face to face.
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Personally I dont think its something you ever fully get over but you just accept it in someway. Thats how I feel anyway 
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omg thats terrible!
I hope they get you an appointment soon & find out whats happening.
xx
I hope they get you an appointment soon & find out whats happening.
xx
