Well I had another go with my doppler when I got home from work and was convinced i ha found it but it was actually my own pulse - My Oh decided to try and help me find it he put on the headphones and after a while I saw him smiling! I listened and he had found it. (It was nice he heard i before me) It was much faster than my pulse and sounded like a steam train.
Then I moved and we lost it!
I had another go a couple of hours later, I spent half and hour looking for it, and just found it myself and I am so Happy!!!
I had to press quite hard and it wasnt where I expected it to be - it was quite central. a few inches below my belly button.
I am now out of gel - they only gave me a small tube. I have ordered some more and it should be with me in a few days!!
This is all so exciting!!