Calling all ladies with small boobies - a cup and under

[CatBana]

Hello ladies! I may not get any replies to this but I'd love to chat to some other ladies of a modest bust. Well when I say modest I mean flat chested! I wear an A cup but its just a formality, I fill it about half way. I've been looking online trying to find a forum to chat to other women like me (i dont know any in real life) but to no avail.
I have learned to embrace my small chest after feeling repulsive as a teenager and am ok with it in general as I think worrying about it is a waste of time - i was able to breastfeed my daughter for 14 months and am proud of my little uns for doing that. And I wouldn't want plastic surgery on them as I prefer natural.
Guess I just want someone else to swap stories with and get advice on where to get small bras and swimwear etc!
N.B - posts from women along the lines of 'sorry cant help you there I'm an F cup!!!' etc will NOT be well received!!!

 

[Toonlass]

If you don't mind me asking hun, how old are you?

I had teeny tiny 'fried egg' boobs (that was my taunt) until i was about 23 then they just appeared!! I wouldn't go swimming, i wore padded bras and baggy jumpers to hide my flat chestedness. My little sister is 20 and also has a very flat chest. I wonder if hers will pop out later on??

My boobs appeared when i gained weight so i think what i have now is about 90% fat lol xx

 

[xXxBonnyxXx]

I am a 32a just!
I find that primark bras are the best fit for me, I always wear padded bras too.
Primark do a really good bra that actually gives me a bit if a cleavage and they have the air pouches in them!

I feel less womanly when I try to find clothes to fit-especially shirt like tops

I am 27 and sadly no growth spurt when I hit my 20's

my sister and my mum are both big busted and i sometimes wish I was also blessed with big ones!

 

[CatBana]

hey hun, i would love it if my boobs were just in hiding but at 26 i dont think theres much chance of that!! Do you mind me asking how much your boobs grew when they appeared? I used to wear loads of padding in my bras now i take it out because it feels like lying. I can't believe you were taunted that is despicable, I was never called anything infact people have always been positive to me about my appearance but I will never feel womanly or attractive because of my chest. Fried eggs describes how my breasts looks perfectly!!!x

 

[Me, My Girls & I]

my mum was completely flat chested until she had my younger sister! to the extent that her friends husband used to joke that when she was lying down she needed signs on her saying this way up i think when she had me they grew a bit, but shrunk again and then when she had my sister they grew and never went back down fully! she didnt have us til her late 30s! i've seen loads of pretty, smaller bras in john lewis that i think are a bit padded and stuff too

 

[Laura_C]

I have always had a small chest (previously A cup) but having my daughter did help things along a little for me but like Toonlass I think it was due to the fact that I put on like 2 stone! I am now a B cup, so still small but can at least fill a cup without mucho padding! I liked bras from La Senza and Debenhams, always got a good fit in either of these shops. I was seriously like two polo mints on an ironing board! I am hoping having my second i might go up another cup size but that's just wishful thinking!

I used to use chicken fillet type inserts pretty much everyday which I bought from Debenhams - they were like liquid ones so you didn't really feel them, good for a bit of a lift.

 

[CatBana]

thanks gals, yea having my daughter hasnt really changed the size of mine but I think she practically sucked my nipples off because they sag down a little bit! Boonie my sister is a 30F, she definitely got all of my share. I would honestly be happy if I was a full A cup, its the fact that I have nothing that sometimes gets me down. Laura I've never used chicken fillets I just don't like pretending I'm bigger than I am, I feel a bit like small boobs ought to be seen in society more! x

 

[scaredmum2be]

im 32a and im 21 hate them being this small but wudnt want surgery either x

 

[Toonlass]

I was a 32a (just) before i had my 1st child at 22. Then i was a 36b for a while. I went to get measured as my bra's got super tight and i was a 36DD I nearly fainted but refused to buy a D cup. Although i always wanted boobs i never wanted boobs that big so i continued to wear a C cup. Now i have alot more weight and 2 more kids i am a 38D and cant really squeeze into anything smaller. I can honestly say i would like them a bit smaller now but when i had my fried eggs i would have killed for my chest right now. I'm just a picky cow tho lol.

My neighbour had no chest and got a boob job at 21 but after the boob job they grew and now she has massive knockers that she hates. I always thought boobs stopped growing after puberty but i was wrong. I wonder when they really do stop growing??

 

[Laura_C]

Oh Toon you sound just like me, I was like a 32/34A before I had my daughter at 22 and then went up to 36B, which I am still now, although my bras are feeling tight. Wonder if I could achieve some DD's?! I think a C cup would be perfect!!

 

[Momma`Kat]

I would honestly be happy if I was a full A cup,

No you wouldnt. You would find something else that you didnt like about them.
All through school i prayed for bigger boobs.. I got them.. Now i complain that I have big saggy boobs instead of perky ones. its not attractive.

 

[lanny]

im a 32a and my cut size dosnt go up when Im pregnant even tho i have put 4 stone on each time so I dont think Im ment to have big boobs lol.
I hated it at school and told my mam as soon as I could save up I was getting a boob job but then my sister who is 2 years older then me boobs where huge 36f and if I thought I hate mine she hated hers much more at school she really got tesed for them and I felt sorry for her.
Then at 21 she was only a size 14 but lost 3stone to get down to a size 8 in the hope her boobs would get smaller and they didnt the doc seen how hard she had tryed so booked her in to get them made smaller and when down to a 32 c I went with her to the hospital and it wasnt nice.
So I have never moaned about my boobs again they dont bother me at all I think im lucky when I go shopping with friend and tops wont shut and they have to get bigger size just for there boobs.

 

[mrsH2009]

I'm a 32a too, I don't really think about it in everyday life have just learnt to wear padded bras. My biggest stress is swim wear and any recommendations would be appriciated

 

[CatBana]

thanks gals, momma kat I do want a full a cup! It's still small and elegant but it would fill a bra! I've literally nothing and well I don't feel like a proper woman. I shunned fashion until I had my daughter and finally felt validated as a woman. Stupid society! It's funny because I was at a fashion show with my busty sis and she started saying how she envyed the models small boobs because tho she's a size 8 she has to buy size 10 or 12 tops to accomodate her F cups! It's not how I look in clothes tho that I mind, its when I'm in swimwear you just cant hide it, and also when I'm in the buff with my OH. I wish I had something up there to be more attractive to him.
I wish there was a procedure where you could suck fat out of your bum (of which I have plenty) and transplant it to the boob area! better than silicone, still kinda natural!

 

[Toonlass]

I'm sure there is such a procedure. I remember seeing it on tele............actually i think they moved the fat into the ass, for the j-lo look. Saying that, if they can put it in your butt i'm sure they could put it in your boobs???

I always say that if i had the cash i would have surgery to 'correct' bits i dont like but i dunno if i really would. I am what i am, warts and all (as they say). I feel self concious being naked infront of my OH too coz of my belly apron, its a disgusting flap of skin that just hangs and wobbles about but he loves me and it doesn't bother him like i expect it to. I bet you OH loves your figure/chest xx

 

[jennilisanne]

I don't fill my a cups either, although I'm starting to a little now.

It used to really bother me a lot, and thought a lot about having something done when I was older. But one day at school in PE I saw a girl who bullied me trying to run, and she couldn't, she had to hold her bra underneath her t-shirt just so she could jog a bit. Sounds mean, but I though, ha ha, I don't have that problem. And since then, I've not been bothered about it.

It is annoying when a lot of tops don't fit because they assume everyone has biggies, but in the long run it just saves me money, lol!

With bras, I often go to the children/teenage section where they're prettier and cheaper