Bye Bye/ missed everyone.

[lauramumof2]

Im not going to post or come on so much anymore.
I really appreciate the posts lately regarding the relactation and posts during the pregnancy .
I feel im reading too many posts and comparing myself with other people who do things differently. Its making me a wee bit unsure of myself.
There are many fabulous breasfeeding mummies on here and I love to read about them and see them overcoming those first few weeks and its lovely to see that after all the trouble at the start that lucy is still doing it 8 months on. But it makes me a wee bit sad that I couldnt acheive it or the natural birth that I see so many of you having and well done to you. Its really good and I read them because I want to and always marvel at some of the things people overcome but I think I really should take time out till I get over this just now.

I have to concentrate on the good things that are happening now!

So, its probably better for me not to look but to concentrate on the here and now, not what I did or didnt do 3 months ago.

I have two fabulous children and a lovely husband oh and sorry, a big black cat to keep me going.

Thanks everyone

Laura.x

 

[Jo]

Aww hun we all compare
don't beat yourself up about it
we'll be here for you whenever you need

 

[budge]

bye laura!!

its been a pleasure to have known you and i hope you and your familiy happiness for the future

 

[missac]

don't go!!

 

[Minxy]

Oh Laura, I know how you feel! I still feel the same after Stanley and I failed at breastfeeding/uncomplicated birth

I've been winding down my posts too (different reasons) but I hope you come back in the future and we can talk TTC with our next ones!


xxxxxx xxxxxxx

 

[nicki]

Take care. If you change your mind, we're all here

 

[rach]

take care hun and remember we are all here when your ready to come back xxx

 

Hun don't go, we're all here to support eachother no matter what. if you have any concerns you can always talk xxx

 

[Amanda]

As the others hadve said, take care hun, and we'll all be waiting when you feel ready to come back.

You'll be missed.

 

[mum&2girls]

please dontgo hun were all here for you and you will be missed

 

[nikki1306]

you take care hun,hope to see you back one day xx

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Hun i wish you all the best ide say dont go but if you wanna come back you will . gonna miss you .
Katrina

 

[sarah113]

bye hun, take care and hope you come back sometime!!

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

take care hun and hope u feel u can come back soon

 

[Keely]

oh hun sorry to hear the bad news! You really shouldnt feel bad about what other people are doing and be happy for the way you do things, you obviously do well as you already have a lovely 2 year old.

Too much presure is put on people to breast feed etc and I am happy that i am not breastfeeding for my own reasons too.

xxxxxxx

 

[Em78]

totally understand hun - take some time to enjoy your family and not think about how everyone else does it. it doesnt matter to a 15 year old how they worn born or fed in these early days and that time will go so fast - all they know is that they were loved and cared for as babies and they will always know that and be greatful for it - its just us mums who stress about it! this is such a small part of raising them and in the long run really isnt as important as we think it is now.

hope to see you back soon hun

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Lucy]

I've just seen this thread, didn't realise you were leaving Laura.

We all do things differently, that's the good things with forums, we can share ideas and pass on knowledge (I've received great advice and help from people - some I use and some I don't , it's all down to personal choice and personal circumstances).

All the best,

Lucy

 

[lauramumof2]

Thanks everyone. I was at my wits end the other day, my brain (small as it is) was going in 10 directions. I have spoken for a while with the hv and she wants me to keep doing what im doing with the bottle. Im sad but know she is right. I feel better for having even tried.

After having read another post (you know ) I hope nobody thought I was making an issue, I just thought I should say I wasnt going to be on as much. I was a regular poster (not as much as sarah ) and didnt want to just drop off and for people, especially ones I regularly talk with to think I had just hightailed it.

Im still going to come on (i cant resist you guys) as there are people who I have seen posts since the were in first tri and now they have babys and people I really like and get on with. Just not as much as this pair are a double act. Its harder work than I thought.

Take care

Laura

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

Thanks everyone. I was at my wits end the other day, my brain (small as it is) was going in 10 directions. I have spoken for a while with the hv and she wants me to keep doing what im doing with the bottle. Im sad but know she is right. I feel better for having even tried.

After having read another post (you know ) I hope nobody thought I was making an issue, I just thought I should say I wasnt going to be on as much. I was a regular poster (not as much as sarah ) and didnt want to just drop off and for people, especially ones I regularly talk with to think I had just hightailed it.

Im still going to come on (i cant resist you guys) as there are people who I have seen posts since the were in first tri and now they have babys and people I really like and get on with. Just not as much as this pair are a double act. Its harder work than I thought.

Take care

Laura

thank god ur still gonna come on
and wot u trying to say mrs

 

[lauramumof2]

and wot u trying to say mrs

you have the second highest number of posts