brown goo?

[whyslifesobig]

erm got a sinking feeling now again. 5 days late.
When i wiped this morning got brown bloody like discharge followed by pinkish. I think this is the end again. I am not bleeding yet or cramping.
I feel really sickly though.
can anyone offer any advise on this?

 

[Andrianne]

Sorry honey, I can't offer any advice on that. I was reading the other thread and was going to suggest you get a blood test done as blood tests are more accurate in picking up pregnancy hormones.

How are you feeling today? How's the bleeding? I hope it's stopped and that all works out for you in the best way. You must be so nervous.

I'm also sorry about your mum and your little beans.

Take care. We're here for you

xxx

 

[whyslifesobig]

I am feeling okay thanks
just a bit worried I am about to bleed. I am still getting pink spotting on wiping but not really blood as such. I might call the nurse at the doctors see if she will help.
My mood is a lot calmer
I guess it's all out of my hands.
Thank you for your kind words
I am going to go take a cool bath and try to relax.

 

[whyslifesobig]

got an apt later today with a different doc. will post tonite about his verdict

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

hope it all works out for you hun
Katrina

 

[Pappadog]

I do hope everything is ok for you. I have exactly the same at the mo

 

[Andrianne]

Good luck whyslifesobig. Come back and let us know

Good luck to you too Pappadog, it sounds like implantation

Fingers crossed

xxx

 

[whyslifesobig]

I am sorry just a brief run down as I feel really down and drained.
the doc was useless, said treat this and the last m/c like a normal af as there is no proof unless you test positive that you were actually preg. when i said about the finding the bean on the tissue last time he just look at me and said well we only have your word for that. (like i was making this up) said if i am not preg by this time next yr go back.
I mentioned about my short cycle and he said well maybe u dont ovulate at all then, thus tuff doo!
I said well what if i don't produce enough hormone to actually test pregnant and thus will never be able to sustain a pregnancy past the first few weeks he said well we will find that out in a year.
told me to keep testing each month. said nothing about charting or what i should do if i keep getting caught and keep miscarrying. when I asked any questions i just got dismissed and now I am upset and the bleeding has started to get more frequent and heavier.
So I am thinking at this point there is no point. I may aswell save myself the heartache and go back on the pill.

 

[whyslifesobig]

did i forget to say he refused a blood test to measure the hcg

 

[foxymum]

i would change your doctor hun.

good luck ttc.xx

 

[whyslifesobig]

this is the second doctor at the same surgery to dismiss me, I just don't seem to be able to make them understand.

 

[Wobbles]

OMG change your doctor pleaseeeee!!! Even if its out of your area!! What a complete ****!!! Make a complaint you have to I would not stand for that!

Gawd poor you

Can I also suggest you start temping? I'd be happy to help you if you have never charted your temps before Ooooo an of course all the other chart stalkers

x

 

[whyslifesobig]

I might but I know i can get PG the problem is keeping it in once i am. I think i need superglue supliments.

 

[Yvanne]

oh dear, u have a horrid doc my thoughts are with u xx

 

[Tam]

Awwww babe

Can you not change your surgery?!

That is terrible! I can't stand these bloody Doctors that know the books but have no bloody bedside manner, WHY ARE THEY DOING THIS JOB?!?!?!? It is beyond me!!!

I really hope your luck changes babe and you are able to change surgery and get a decent Doctor, try to find out from friends of family if they have decent Doctor's? I would recommend mine to anyone, she is great!!!

Take care babe & hope you are feeling better soon xx

 

[HayleyB]

Change doctors hun, its well within your rights.
I felt the same way after my mc in February, but it wasn't my GP it was an A&E doctor, he had the same kind of "well you can't prove you ever were pregnant" attitude!
Was really out of order, and i walked out of the hospital in more tears than i went in....
My doctor said i had to give it 6 months of ttc etc before he could refer me, not a year! I mean the 6 months was hard enough!!
(maybe if when you change your doctor you told a couple of white lies about how long you've been trying etc?)

I'm really sorry you're going through all this at the moment

 

[whyslifesobig]

I am going to call up the surgery again and ask to see the only female doc she might understand a bit more what I am saying. If not I will look for a new doctors. I still feel really sick but the bleeding is heavier than normal AF today.
I would be so down if I couldn't talk to you all. I feel really alone at mo.

 

[whyslifesobig]

got another apt on tues with female doc. hope she is more understanding. In the mean time i been and spoke to the chemist who gave me the highest does B6 she had and agreed a 21 day cycle is very short and probably the root cause of my problems holding onto a pregancy. I had a mass bleed out in asda loo today, I went really dizzy and sick feeling with a bad cramp and now the bleeding is a little lighter. That can only be a good thing lol
My moods have stablised too. Sorry for all the emotions it's not really me honest.
anyway thanks for all you support girls
be in ttc with a thermometer and a bic pen as soon as I stop bleeding

 

[HayleyB]