of course not its not selfish ur thinking of ur baby too, its better 2 hav parents that are apart and happy (possibly in love with other ppl) than parents who are together without love n not happy. i dont kno how u can break it 2 him tho hun, sorry i'v never broken up with ne1 (apart from when i was about 15 and just ignored them not really breaking up properly!)Kimbo said:if your gonna reply and tell me not to do it and dont be selfish, then please dont reply, i just want some advice