arghhhhh - REALLY need to vent

[1sttimemum]

I really need to vent this off my chest!!

My OH has had 3 weeks off work (paternity leave) since Caitlyn has been here he has been redesigning the back garden - somewhere for us to sit and play when the weather is nice - all very well - thank you!

But when he is out there all day long, i aint getting much help with Caitlyn! He does maybe one feed and is out in the garden, im looking after a newborn baby and trying to keep the house tidy and clean (i'm VERY houseproud and cannot see it messy or dirty)! Its reall hard work.

Ive sat down to talk to him about it and he has admitted that yes he doesnt do enough to help me and that he will start pulling his weight, next day were back to normal - its all talk with no meaning!!

Also - OMG did anyone else have to fight their OH away - god he's doing my head in - practically begging for me to give him a b**w job. I'm that tired , and i sooooo don't feel sexy, so i dont want to do anything of the sort and yet he is really mithering me!!

MEN!!!!

 

[LaineyG]

Oh luv,
It's soooo hard for the first few weeks, and he really should be helping you more with stuff.



Try some bribery......if he helps you more, and lets you get a kip, then maybe that BJ won't be too far away!

xxx

 

[1sttimemum]

Try some bribery......if he helps you more, and lets you get a kip, then maybe that BJ won't be too far away!

xxx

Yeh it will now be 9 weeks instead of 10 lolololol!!

Yes i need help, but Caitlyn is never going to be a newborn again is she and i dont want him to be disappointed !!