BabyNumber1
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Early morning rant...
Heres the issue, can someone please tell me if they think i am being totally unreasonable or am i right to feel like this...
My OH is best friends with his ex (they went out for 2 years i think many years ago and them being friends doesnt bother me as theres other reasons as to why they were together blah blah blah) but anyway... so yeh his best friend is a girl and shes really nice... the thing is shes a bit 'much' if that makes sense...
yesterday i had my midwife appointment and i had to go back to the doctors later on to see my gp, so me and my OH walked round with the dog and as his friend lives right near the doctors he went there whilst i was being seen to... i finished at the doctors, and walked round to her house and as we were saying bye she hugged and kissed us (she usually does this so nothing out of the ordinary on that front) then she kissed my belly...
Yes i get she is excited, and shes looking forward to me having the baby as she is going to be god mother and stuff on his side (yes i know that sounds a bit weird with them being ex's but if you knew the background it wouldnt be AS weird) but not even MY best friend touches my belly never mind kisses it!!! ITs made me feel so uncomfortable!!
I mentioned it to the OH when we were on our way back home and he was just saying 'shes only being nice, you can tell her if you have a problem' the thing is i dont want to upset her and i can be really blunt with my words when something is p*ssing me off so as its his best friend id have preferred him to mention it to her...
If shes like this now when the baby isnt here... what is she going to be like when ive had the baby... i dont want her coming round all the time and picking up and mauling my baby...
Am i being irrational?? and is this just my hormones making me out to be a complete cow bag???
Heres the issue, can someone please tell me if they think i am being totally unreasonable or am i right to feel like this...
My OH is best friends with his ex (they went out for 2 years i think many years ago and them being friends doesnt bother me as theres other reasons as to why they were together blah blah blah) but anyway... so yeh his best friend is a girl and shes really nice... the thing is shes a bit 'much' if that makes sense...
yesterday i had my midwife appointment and i had to go back to the doctors later on to see my gp, so me and my OH walked round with the dog and as his friend lives right near the doctors he went there whilst i was being seen to... i finished at the doctors, and walked round to her house and as we were saying bye she hugged and kissed us (she usually does this so nothing out of the ordinary on that front) then she kissed my belly...
Yes i get she is excited, and shes looking forward to me having the baby as she is going to be god mother and stuff on his side (yes i know that sounds a bit weird with them being ex's but if you knew the background it wouldnt be AS weird) but not even MY best friend touches my belly never mind kisses it!!! ITs made me feel so uncomfortable!!
I mentioned it to the OH when we were on our way back home and he was just saying 'shes only being nice, you can tell her if you have a problem' the thing is i dont want to upset her and i can be really blunt with my words when something is p*ssing me off so as its his best friend id have preferred him to mention it to her...
If shes like this now when the baby isnt here... what is she going to be like when ive had the baby... i dont want her coming round all the time and picking up and mauling my baby...
Am i being irrational?? and is this just my hormones making me out to be a complete cow bag???